I spent years worring about what others would think or say about my preference to trans-women. A large percentaage of men like trans-women...period. Most cannot handle the socil stigma that comes with being found out. I've seen athletes, actors, producers, cops, judges, pastors....all pillars of society, sneaking in and out of hotels and apartments of working girls. I have neither the time nor energy to worry about what others think of me.