Quote Originally Posted by MrKnockOut View Post
I have given up on the whole good girl ts stuff man...it's like once they get involved with that escorting game, start fucking with drugs, there a done deal. Jade city, glass half empty, calculators is what they become. Now i've met two girls who aren't in the whole escorting game, they work regular 9 to 5's and go to school and some of the most down to earth women I know, I can actually sit and hold a real conversation with them. Seems like most of the girls that are into escorting have a really fucked up view on reality, like most dudes who are in the drug game have a really fucked up perception of the world. You look at the world in terms of what immediately affects you, i.e. the game, and you can never really shake that shit away...everything you do revolves around tricking or escorting. Much respect to the fellaz of the few ladies who maintain their lifestyles via tricking but I couldn't be that dude, if I really loved her, I just couldn't see being cool with that shit. If I were just in it to get her money or use her, I could definitely ride it out. I don't think any man should want that for his babygirl...if papi had to work 2 jobs to keep mami laced, that's just what i'd have to do...I hate the fact that so many of these beautiful ass girls thinks its the only way to get ahead in life, shit is just an awful fucked up way to live. Selling images of yourself is one thing but having to suck and fuck day in and day out to make sure you got food on your table and clothes on your back, man that shit has to to be the worse. Now that i've gone off into this tangent, I can kind of see why the girls who are in that lifestyle often have so many fucking bad attitudes. I would probably become a little emotionally detached from intimate situations. Sort of how I felt when I was selling crack to people that I know would eventually kill them and take away from their families...I guess you do what you gotta do and deal with the moral consequences later.
Well said...Don't get it wrong, I understand it's tough for some TS to make it in the 'real' world, but you do see some doing it (working at the airport, in hair salons, etc.). But yeah, even on BGC you come across some of the most ignorant T-Girls. It's like they are becoming like regular Black Woman, which IMO defeats the purpose of being with one.