Just met a very sexy and intelligent provider...

[blk_doctor_nyc]

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[aplus82]

I been feeling the same about a shorty I meet in jersey. Everytime I see her it seem like we get closer and closer, but a trick is a trick I guess.

[DrDickenstein]

Anything is possible...but it's a slippery slope. I would wait, let her initiate....if u come out with it, high potential to "get played". Ya know?

Still definitely see GG's....I like the feminine form, with and w/o a dick.

[DirtySouth]

I have been looking for a sexy, intelligent black lady for a while, think I just meet her. She is a provider but our experience was good enough to make me want to see her on the regular and extend beyond just sex, fine cusine, traveling, etc. So how does this work, should I think of this as convential dating except that I leave her with a stack of money when we are done... What if I actually start liking her, which could happen? She is that sexy and sweet, unlike any lady I have meet before (although I dont have tons of experience).
Another questions, do you guys date genetic girls as well? Do you do so because of society or bc you really like ggs as well? any thoughts would be appreciated...

Well, it's not conventional if you're leaving a stack at the end of the date....

If you fall into that trick bag, you're going to stay in that trick back. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're going to trick with her and she its going to turn into "conventional dating" or a relationship. It will stay where it starts. If you REALLY don't want to be a trick, don't fall into that trap ,just try to date her on the real if thats your thing. Otherwise, pay her and enjoy whatever services she is providing. .

I cant speak for everyone else, but generally what Ive seen from admirers are that they still date, or sometimes prefer , GGs. They may be heavy into TGs but sometimes they still dabble with GGs or vice versa. I haven't met too many guys that solely date TS. Thats usually game they run on some of the t-girls who choose to believe that.

[kilakali]

I cant speak for everyone else, but generally what Ive seen from admirers are that they still date, or sometimes prefer , GGs. They may be heavy into TGs but sometimes they still dabble with GGs or vice versa. I haven't met too many guys that solely date TS. Thats usually game they run on some of the girls who choose to believe that.

I date both and perfer GG over TG. DS statement reminds someting a BTG told me recently and thats " Men like TGs but love GG's".

[phi0820]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

[kilakali]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

I have and it eventually took its toll on me mentally, and I had to leave the relationship. As much as the girl was "into" me and the fact that i knew it was just a job for her. It was too taxing on me. The cell phone constantly ringing, the tours, and then she got into porn, that was the final straw.

If a guy is willing to accept all that goes with dating an escort. Kudos to you .

[DirtySouth]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

If you dont mind your potential chick sleeping with anyone with a couple of dollars to play ball, then go for it. The whole point of a relationship is to be monogamous IMO. Its totally contradictory to be with someone that you know is going to screw dudes, women, couples or whatever for the cash.


Your best bet, if you want to date her, do that but maintain your own options on the side. If she is down to build something, she will be understanding or do the same for you. If she is going to play the double standard, don't play yourself. There is no reason to nail yourself down if the girl wont.

[peggygee]

I have been looking for a sexy, intelligent black lady for a while, think I just meet her. She is a provider but our experience was good enough to make me want to see her on the regular and extend beyond just sex, fine cusine, traveling, etc. So how does this work, should I think of this as convential dating except that I leave her with a stack of money when we are done... What if I actually start liking her, which could happen? She is that sexy and sweet, unlike any lady I have meet before (although I dont have tons of experience).
Another questions, do you guys date genetic girls as well? Do you do so because of society or bc you really like ggs as well? any thoughts would be appreciated...

Doc, sounds like you're sprung, like she's got your nose open.

I think you may have misinterpreted a GFE, or even a woman who may like
you as person for someone who has caught feelings for you.

As others have stated, the way you two met has pretty much set the tone
for your future relationship with her.

And the harsh reality is that the Julia Roberts, Richard Gere - "Pretty Woman"
scenario basically just happens in the movies.

[TVSURFER]

Yeah Doc, listen up! You're messing with something that will put you on the other side of the medical profession; either a couch or a padded room with a nice wardrobe with your sleeves locked together, from behind. Take a chance with a gg, you'll feel like a chump only for a little while. And, you can get another real woman soon with the ducketts you're throwing around.
But, if you just have to have it, start your own t-girl site and get all the t-girl nookie you want!