Your Top 3 Provider Let Downs :(

[DirtySouth]

The few experiences I've had, I don't have a complaint. It's a good thing to try if you don't want to put in the time to get to know said girl. Big time saver for you and everyone's happy.

My only advice, keep it professional. Don't try to free fuck the girl or befriend if you are paying.

[MrKnockOut]

The few experiences I've had, I don't have a complaint. It's a good thing to try if you don't want to put in the time to get to know said girl. Big time saver for you and everyone's happy.

My only advice, keep it professional. Don't try to free fuck the girl or befriend if you are paying.

True. Im starting to gain more respect for the p4p guys. I've been on bgc and I am tired of all the drama. I almost feel like it would be better to pay a chick to leave. Why is it that so many black ts seem to be immature? Thanks to a new website someone put me onto, I am starting to see a world outside of btg's. Had my 1st date with a cool young asian ts grad student...its nice to talk with someone about more than "you get high, you drink, you going to a ball, blah blah blah". I find it funny because im also confronting some of my long held beliefs and stereotypes of other cultures. I presumed that most white and asian ts didn't like black or hispanic men. Maybe because I chose to believe the few ts who I saw post ignorant and outlandish thoughts on the net.

[vidman]

True. Im starting to gain more respect for the p4p guys. I've been on bgc and I am tired of all the drama. I almost feel like it would be better to pay a chick to leave. Why is it that so many black ts seem to be immature? Thanks to a new website someone put me onto, I am starting to see a world outside of btg's. Had my 1st date with a cool young asian ts grad student...its nice to talk with someone about more than "you get high, you drink, you going to a ball, blah blah blah". I find it funny because im also confronting some of my long held beliefs and stereotypes of other cultures. I presumed that most white and asian ts didn't like black or hispanic men. Maybe because I chose to believe the few ts who I saw post ignorant and outlandish thoughts on the net.

KO, I always feel your comments man. I think the number 1 reason that most of us blacks feel that other cultures hate us is because the media casts us in such a bad light. Every time you turn on the television, the media always shows the darkest side of the black race. They never show the prominent blacks that are doing positive things. The few they do happen to show always get overshadowed by the other 20 negative stories of blacks. I lived in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn NY for a few years and let me just tell you that those Italians are the rowdiest things I have ever seen. The media is never there to highlight their shady/criminal dealings. Trust me, they do foul foul things. There is an Italian club in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn where shoot outs happen almost every Friday night but you never hear about it on the news. Let there be a fist fight in the black community and every FOX, CNN and NBC camera is there to report. Didn't mean to sidetrack, but unfortunately, television is the greatest vessel of communication that we have today and masses upon masses of people watch television. When other cultures see 9 out of 10 negative stories about Blacks, they tend to draw there own conclusions. Kinda like thinking that Asians are masters of Kung Fu and the Martial Arts. Well they aren't. The only reason I ever thought such a thing is because that's what television portrays of them (Jackie Chan, Bruce Lee, Jet Li, etc). ....and by the way, All Asians don't have small penises either. Just take a look at some of the beautiful Asian Ladyboys. Some of those girls might have "black genes" in them (another media induced stereotype right? - blacks and big dicks). LOL.
Keep it coming KO. You make people think outside the box. I like that.

[DirtySouth]

True. Im starting to gain more respect for the p4p guys. I've been on bgc and I am tired of all the drama. I almost feel like it would be better to pay a chick to leave. Why is it that so many black ts seem to be immature? Thanks to a new website someone put me onto, I am starting to see a world outside of btg's. Had my 1st date with a cool young asian ts grad student...its nice to talk with someone about more than "you get high, you drink, you going to a ball, blah blah blah". I find it funny because im also confronting some of my long held beliefs and stereotypes of other cultures. I presumed that most white and asian ts didn't like black or hispanic men. Maybe because I chose to believe the few ts who I saw post ignorant and outlandish thoughts on the net.

LOL @ the ball thing.

Well, the p4p is cool. You are paying them to leave at the end of the day. Yes, you are paying for their services, but more importantly - you're paying so you dont have to have a series of b.s. convos, drama and putting yourself on blast if you are discreet. Then the convenience of them leaving with NSA. If all you want is a quick nut, this is the way to go.

If anyone has any goals in life, you know you cant sit around debating with TS on BGC about getting the ass, trying to take em out on some bullshit date or getting questioned about who you had sex with when the same girl has an ad up and probably had 3 dicks for breakfast.

If you date TS seriously and that's your thing, go for it. If you only see them in a sexual manner, its just easier to pay and be done. It's not worth the headache.

The girls (mostly black) have these delusions of grandeur because the web allowed them to blow up. A lot of girls are producing solo sites, and even though most sites dont last, that gets them a lot of attention that otherwise they were'nt getting. Some of the other girls start feeling themselves too much just because someone gave them a couple of dollars for sex - which isnt really basis to feel like a celebrity. This is a problem in the black community period - the ts just take it to the extreme more often. Black females take a couple of piss poor pictures and post it on the net then think they are models. Black men sell a couple of dime bags on the street and think they are Tony Montana all of a sudden. It's a problem we have to fix in our culture basically, then the TS/Admirers will follow suite.

[badboy]

True. Im starting to gain more respect for the p4p guys. I've been on bgc and I am tired of all the drama. I almost feel like it would be better to pay a chick to leave. Why is it that so many black ts seem to be immature? Thanks to a new website someone put me onto, I am starting to see a world outside of btg's. Had my 1st date with a cool young asian ts grad student...its nice to talk with someone about more than "you get high, you drink, you going to a ball, blah blah blah". I find it funny because im also confronting some of my long held beliefs and stereotypes of other cultures. I presumed that most white and asian ts didn't like black or hispanic men. Maybe because I chose to believe the few ts who I saw post ignorant and outlandish thoughts on the net.

What new web site are you referring to?

[anonymoussonny]

I too appreciate KO's perspective...the 'realness' is often better than the dreams these TGirls try to sell. KO brought up an interesting point, there are other ethnicities races, colors and I honestly hadn't seriously entertained this option. This is making me examine whether I have fetishized 'Black' Tgirls at the expense of finding a true TGirl for me.

I also agree with Vidman and Dirty about the stereotypes and delusions of grandeur. I prefer the analogy, "Give somebody a rope and they turn into a Cowboy!" I laugh at the comments I see on BGC and Blogs when its obvious there are posters who are listening to too few people & drinking their own Kool-Aid!!!

[iketurner]

In short, it is easier to be the trick. Prostitution is underrated it serves a purpose whether TG or GG. The cortship and the drama is more expensive than the session.

Look at tricking as a commodity like a supermarket the only thing that seperates them is service if they bag your groceries and take to the car you may use that market often. If a TG has her own clean place, discreet location, wet wipes or wash cloth when you are finsihed you may use her services often.