who here has been seen with a tgirl in public

[Ms Remy M]

Lol good question. 7 times out of 10, when I'm out in public I have a tgirl with me. Care less what anyone has to say about it.

[Nassau]

Lets be real for a minute people, if you have sex with a Tgirl then your gay and your seen as gay. If your out dating a shemale then your gay. I know thats folks are gonna disagree with me but look at some of these Tgirls personal Website and you see the guy with the mask on...there is a reason he has a mask on and its not because he ugly lol. Theres a reason that dudes don't wanna be seen with a tgirl in public. I look at tranny porn but hell i look at all types of porn if its good i never slept with a tgirl nor do i plan to. I do Pussy and Pussy ONLY.

Hell when a Tgirl gets with a man who knows she is a shemale the first thing she thinks is "he is obviously gay, he knows i have a dick". don't believe me ask them. The only time that i MAY NOT count if if the tgirl is Post-Op. MAYBE!!!

I can tell you black
anyway if you only interest in pussy why you here, don't tell me that your adventurous or some other bullcrap

[Nassau]

All other race of men seem 2 be a little bit more open 2 being seen with tgirls then blacks, I don't know why though I guess that's just them I would never let people dictate me and my actions because I'm afraid they'll think I'm "soft" "gay" or whatever

[hoodstar]

I can tell you black
anyway if you only interest in pussy why you here, don't tell me that your adventurous or some other bullcrap

Im a watcher thats it. im only interested in fucking pussy. WATCHING tgirl porn is a guilty pleasure. but i only fuck pussy. Not trying to put anyone down on this site because i know some folks disagree with me and be like "oh your confused" but you can only be confused if you don't know if you want to get with a tgirl or not...i don't.

[phi0820]

Im a watcher thats it. im only interested in fucking pussy. WATCHING tgirl porn is a guilty pleasure. but i only fuck pussy. Not trying to put anyone down on this site because i know some folks disagree with me and be like "oh your confused" but you can only be confused if you don't know if you want to get with a tgirl or not...i don't.

I definitely hear you, and it's completely possible to just get turned on by the porn and nothing else, but too many people seem to equate the act of sex with sexual orientation and that's what sounds like you're doing. Not to try and put you on trial, because you don't have to justify why you like what you like or anything like that, but you can fuck a person and sexual attraction doesn't necessarily have to enter into the equation. Is a man who likes women any less "straight" if he becomes celibate? What about the celibate guy who likes t-girls or even men?

[Darkness]

This question really illuminates how trans-attracted men view themselves as well as how they view trans-women. As a black man who dealt with the insecurities and societal conditioning that we have all fallen prey to; it took almost 10 years before I was comfortable enough with myself to be seen in public with a trans-woman. It didn't matter how passable she was. Most of the insecurity issues were within me.
As I matured, I saw a lot of men from all walks of life sneaking in and out with the working girls. These same men would deny it to their dying day. There are ton's of me from all walks of life - I have seen them myself - who will taste the forbidden fruit of a trans-woman and yet will die if they were to be seen.It's funny - yes this is a porn site blog but it is a microcosim of society as a whole.
I have been in a couple of LTR's with trans-women. I find my behavior back in the day both sad and troubling. I am not ashamed of who I am or who I choose to be with and date trans-women almost exclusively.

[hoodstar]

I definitely hear you, and it's completely possible to just get turned on by the porn and nothing else, but too many people seem to equate the act of sex with sexual orientation and that's what sounds like you're doing. Not to try and put you on trial, because you don't have to justify why you like what you like or anything like that, but you can fuck a person and sexual attraction doesn't necessarily have to enter into the equation. Is a man who likes women any less "straight" if he becomes celibate? What about the celibate guy who likes t-girls or even men?

The bolded describes me. I only get turned on by watching them. but hell thats for any bizarre/freaky/good/unusual porn on the net. i just get bored SOMETIMES with the same o same o. i only seen(not met) 2 tgirls in my life both on accident. one in a parking lot and one at burger king. how did i know they was tgirls? one of the cooks at burger king yelled "YO DAWG THATS A DUDE!" and they other one i over heard dudes saying that shes a dude.

[hoodstar]

also just wondering

1) does the people know she is a shemale? if not whats the point? If no one knows who the shemale is then no one would know that she is a tgirl right? so whats the point in being with a tgirl in public?

2) And if its because she is so damn ugly why fuck with her to begin with?

3) also if you going somewhere where the shemale is known than whats so bad about being seen with her?

4) having you been fronting like your this guy who claims he is 100% strait? so now you have to keep that front up

[anonymoussonny]

Hoodstar: You make some interesting points...yet you also point out your naivety (I don't want to say ignorance) regarding the world of sexuality versus societal norms...
1) does the people know she is a shemale? if not whats the point? If no one knows who the shemale is then no one would know that she is a tgirl right? so whats the point in being with a tgirl in public? WTF??? Attraction to the feminine form is universal for straight men or TG Admirers. A man in a dress is a cross-dresser and doesn't apply to TG's who define themselves as women and want to be perceived as such.
2) And if its because she is so damn ugly why fuck with her to begin with? Ask that to many men who have not so attractive (ugly) mates whether they be male or female... Overwhelmingly, the response is personality & compatability... Live long enough you may understand that one.

3) also if you going somewhere where the shemale is known than whats so bad about being seen with her? I dont think this is an issue for all TG Admirers. Some men don't identify with the Ball Scene, Gay Club, etc... because they don't perceive themselves as GAY!!!

4) having you been fronting like your this guy who claims he is 100% strait? so now you have to keep that front up[/QUOTE] Again I state...WTF??? Attraction to the feminine form is universal for straight men or TG Admirers. I like... No, I LOVE the Feminine Form. TG's & GG's make me tingle in all the right places... not feminine dudes, gay dudes or any dudes whatsoever! This is a stigma created by the society we live in. Its an example of the frog being placed in cool water that warms until they are boiled alive. People who come to live in our American society are often shocked by how limited we are in accepting people outside of the defined norms. Just like a frog being thrown into a pot of boiling water would immediately leap out of it. We all have to 'fit' into a category/perception/or group define by others, sometimes we subscribe to these norms while harboring our own doubts (look in the mirror). You stated earlier that you just like to look at various porn and that you are straight. Well, show your TG porn to your GG girlfriend and see if she still approves of you being 100% straight. This to me is the the litmus test... one I myself could not pass using this societys rubric!!! But to come in and label everyone here GAY is presumptuous and naive (I don't want to say ignorant)... Yet YOU are here and claim to be straight, just like ME...

[hoodstar]

^ Have you been with a shemale before? if so then thats the difference between me and you. I havent nor will i ever. Attraction to the femine form is true HOWEVER if you get with a "girl" you know is a "man" then does that count as you being gay? Forget what you watch on the internet, what is your action? Im not trying to bash anybody who is gay cause if your gay then thats your bussiness BUT to the public eye you are gay. What i have noticed is guys who date trannies don't consider themselves gay.

if it don't matter if your seen public than why ask the question? obviously guys ae worried about what others think.