who here has been seen with a tgirl in public

[Ms Remy M]

Ok, I wasn't going to respond to hoodstars' listed questions, as we've been here before and the conversations seemed more intelligent before. However; (working to keep the semicolon alive ) the 'words' from his last post in response to anonymoussonny prompted my 'stepping in'.

Being 'gay' is being attracted to the same sex, so you don't have to actually have sexual intercourse with a man to finally become 'gay', the mental aspect, I believe is enough. He nor most others here are attracted to men. We like the female form, attitude, and mannerisms.

Whether liking transsexauals makes you 'gay' can be debated but the general consenus from the TG admirers point of view is that they are straight. I personally am comfortable with saying I'm bi, though I too, do not have any attraction to men, only women and tg's. I find it's simply easier when people want me to talk about my sexuality to say I'm Bi. It's a little easier for the outsider to wrap their mind around.

Transsexuals identify as the opposite sex from which they were born. Being 'gay' requires being attracted to the same sex. Being that 'MtF' transsexuals identify as females, the tg admirers are then straight as they are attracted to the female image that the transsexual presents.

I certainly think it's wrong to only see tgirls in secretive situations and on the 'DL', but tgirls make a very decent business (escorting) off of that very situation so they in turn exasperate the issue further. I've met quite a few girls who had BF's that wouldn't go certain places with them or take them to the family house or whatever. It's very fucked up and I never understand why they put up with it, but that's the human condition isn't it. We are all people and all deserve respect equally, no more, no less, but until the girls start sticking up for themselves and demanding respect and more than just the dollar and cents, we will likely be stuck in this cycle.

Thank you for reading my words, hope I didn't piss anyone off and good night.

[mrvice]

Ok, I wasn't going to respond to hoodstars' listed questions, as we've been here before and the conversations seemed more intelligent before. However; (working to keep the semicolon alive ) the 'words' from his last post in response to anonymoussonny prompted my 'stepping in'.

Being 'gay' is being attracted to the same sex, so you don't have to actually have sexual intercourse with a man to finally become 'gay', the mental aspect, I believe is enough. He nor most others here are attracted to men. We like the female form, attitude, and mannerisms.

Whether liking transsexauals makes you 'gay' can be debated but the general consenus from the TG admirers point of view is that they are straight. I personally am comfortable with saying I'm bi, though I too, do not have any attraction to men, only women and tg's. I find it's simply easier when people want me to talk about my sexuality to say I'm Bi. It's a little easier for the outsider to wrap their mind around.

Transsexuals identify as the opposite sex from which they were born. Being 'gay' requires being attracted to the same sex. Being that 'MtF' transsexuals identify as females, the tg admirers are then straight as they are attracted to the female image that the transsexual presents.

I certainly think it's wrong to only see tgirls in secretive situations and on the 'DL', but tgirls make a very decent business (escorting) off of that very situation so they in turn exasperate the issue further. I've met quite a few girls who had BF's that wouldn't go certain places with them or take them to the family house or whatever. It's very fucked up and I never understand why they put up with it, but that's the human condition isn't it. We are all people and all deserve respect equally, no more, no less, but until the girls start sticking up for themselves and demanding respect and more than just the dollar and cents, we will likely be stuck in this cycle.

Thank you for reading my words, hope I didn't piss anyone off and good night.

very well said remy

[phi0820]

I'm very offended by Remy's post. That "semicolon" nonsense is just uncalled for.

[hoodstar]

well said remy, im attracted to femine women in the real world and like WATCHING tgirls online thats it and thats all im gonna say on that. take it for what you want.

[phi0820]

Are aiming that at someone specifically or is that just hypothetical? Obviously, anyone who's embarrassed to be seen with a person they're involved with/attracted to is insecure about that relationship/attraction.

[ROC]

i'm good friends with shalaya, she's from my neck of the woods, very well known in the neighborhood... Sweetest shawty you'll ever meet, fine as hell too............

[DYNACORD]

Let's certainly hope so. The ultimate goal in my opinion is to be able to meet a TGirl who is PASSABLE[/I][/B]. Date her, become friends, lovers and fall in love with her. I do it and I've done it, so it can be done. In the end you would want to walk around all day long with her. No different than with a GG.
I'm lucky enough or picky enough to have TGirl friends and Lovers whom I travel the town with to all kinds of social events. No one ever questions our business. Hope everyone else can have the same luck as me on that.

Sometimes there's more to a girl than meets the EYE. LOL. Part of the thrill.

[DYNACORD]

i'm good friends with shalaya, she's from my neck of the woods, very well known in the neighborhood... Sweetest shawty you'll ever meet, fine as hell too............

ROC, Beyounce is smoking hot in that photo set. Don't care for the blonde look. Just a thought.

[bigdicki]

well said remy, im attracted to femine women in the real world and like WATCHING tgirls online thats it and thats all im gonna say on that. take it for what you want.

I've been following your posts and interesting logic. According to you any man who has sex with a transgender is gay. According to Remy, any "attraction" to anyone who is a male is gay. Although transgenders are not males to me and most learned scientific minds, let's argue the point that you seem to posit: all male to female transgenders are merely gay males. Now, the argument you made is supported by "societal norms" which dictate males who are sexually aroused or attracted by anyone with the same genitalia are gay. Those same people who construct those societal norms would agree with Remy that "gayness" is dependent on thought not action. If you have any doubt, consult your average southern Baptist minister. Now, stay with me young blood, if thoughts of attraction to someone with the same genitalia makes one gay and every man who has an attraction to people with male genitalia is gay then.... THAT MAKES YOU GAY AS A MUFUCKA.

Truth be told, I don't give a shit about titles, never have, never will. I only care about my dough and my happiness. If liking (or even one day loving) a tg makes me gay, fuck it, I don't give a shit.... and quite frankly no one else should either.

[bigdicki]

i'm good friends with shalaya, she's from my neck of the woods, very well known in the neighborhood... Sweetest shawty you'll ever meet, fine as hell too............

I wanted to hit that for years and never met her. I was a little disappointed by her most recent BTG hardcore though; she seems a little high siddity now.