Would u agree? Any comments are welcome..

[mrvice]

To find a REAL man who will treat me like a REAL woman is rare to non-exsistant.
How would you know a girl like me is not wife material?
How many of you guys take ts out to the movies at the mall on a saturday afternoon when the mall is crowded and are secure enough in YOURSELVES to do that.
I'm Puerto Rican, how many of you guys are man enough to take me to the salsa club, with is STRAIGHT, dance with me, kiss and cuddle like all the other couples? Or maybe go with me to the fest, play silly games and go on dumb ass rides for the laughs and fun?
Or I live in Chicago, would you go with me to Navy Peer to watch the fireworks?? Or take me to taste of Chicago?
Or with you to one of YOUR familys functions.
Fuck bitching and moaning about ts escort this and ts porn star that.
YOU MEN are the reason we are the way we are. You made us this way now you want to bitch and moan??
SFU and treat us like woman and then you will get a ts like me to be wifey.
Oh yea and we would respect you for breaking the mold and being a black man who is a REAL man and can date and see us as WOMAN not ts!

and mostly some guys are afraid to take risk...cuz me myself aint afraid to take a nice ts out to the movies or a nice outing to the park which i have went out with a ts and not afraid to take them out cuz in my mind they are normal human beings like everyone else not creatures we look down on

[prince3030]

Unlike gay men most tgirls rely on sex with men to make a living. Yeah, I know some go to nail school but lets face it.. you dont see many tgirl lawyers. Just look around at work. How many tgirls do you see? With that said Its almost impossible for a tgirl to concentrate on a having a relationship.
Those that are in a relationship are really popular (Porn stars). Yeah I heard some on the post mention trust in men as a factor..but its deeper than that. Women dont trust men either but most would be in a relationhsip if given the chance.

Lets face it... a relationship with a tgirl is not relalistic..not long term anyway. Most guys who date tgirls live straight lives. They date tgirs because they look like women but have something extra. Even if it was acceptable most tgirls dont look good after a certain age, and a tgirls ages alot quicker than your avarage women. This is not a dish on tgirls but a fact.

[bigdicki]

To find a REAL man who will treat me like a REAL woman is rare to non-exsistant.
How would you know a girl like me is not wife material?
How many of you guys take ts out to the movies at the mall on a saturday afternoon when the mall is crowded and are secure enough in YOURSELVES to do that.
I'm Puerto Rican, how many of you guys are man enough to take me to the salsa club, with is STRAIGHT, dance with me, kiss and cuddle like all the other couples? Or maybe go with me to the fest, play silly games and go on dumb ass rides for the laughs and fun?
Or I live in Chicago, would you go with me to Navy Peer to watch the fireworks?? Or take me to taste of Chicago?
Or with you to one of YOUR familys functions.
Fuck bitching and moaning about ts escort this and ts porn star that.
YOU MEN are the reason we are the way we are. You made us this way now you want to bitch and moan??
SFU and treat us like woman and then you will get a ts like me to be wifey.
Oh yea and we would respect you for breaking the mold and being a black man who is a REAL man and can date and see us as WOMAN not ts!

I totally feel you, but honestly I rarely treat ANYONE like that. Yes, I'll go out grab some food. We may go to the movies, but I'm not going to the club with broads (gg or tg) and I'm not going walking on Navy Pier. That's just not me. I figure if I'm going to the club, which rare nowadays, I'm looking to catch a fish not bring some fish to the pond. And as far as the other things, I'm just not into the lovey-dovey things. That doesn't mean I'm not a good dude and there are many dudes out there like me. However, I can understand a woman (tg or gg) wanting those things so bad that she won't settle for less. I guess thats why I'm single with jump-offs!

[BlkMuscleTop]

To find a REAL man who will treat me like a REAL woman is rare to non-exsistant.
How would you know a girl like me is not wife material?
How many of you guys take ts out to the movies at the mall on a saturday afternoon when the mall is crowded and are secure enough in YOURSELVES to do that.
I'm Puerto Rican, how many of you guys are man enough to take me to the salsa club, with is STRAIGHT, dance with me, kiss and cuddle like all the other couples? Or maybe go with me to the fest, play silly games and go on dumb ass rides for the laughs and fun?
Or I live in Chicago, would you go with me to Navy Peer to watch the fireworks?? Or take me to taste of Chicago?
Or with you to one of YOUR familys functions.
Fuck bitching and moaning about ts escort this and ts porn star that.
YOU MEN are the reason we are the way we are. You made us this way now you want to bitch and moan??
SFU and treat us like woman and then you will get a ts like me to be wifey.
Oh yea and we would respect you for breaking the mold and being a black man who is a REAL man and can date and see us as WOMAN not ts!

You raise some good points there as well Vanessa, but shouldn't it be up to the ladies to not be some jump off and put the dudes in their place by demanding respect, no ifs, ands or buts about it.

I realize life isn't that clear cut but a lot of dudes couldn't do what they do if the ladies didn't tolerate it as well.

Like you said some dudes are shook to be in public, or take the girls to their family or whatever, but they still wanna get that sexing in the sheets.

I don't know why any lady would want to be with any dude who wouldn't want his family to know about her or do things in the regular public that couples do as you mentioned.

I think the ladies have way more power to demand more than casual hookups from a guy and it starts with basic respect.

[BlkMuscleTop]

Oh and as for myself Vanessa, I'm the kind of brotha that don't give a fuck what people think. Its my life, I live, love then I die and I sure as heck am not going to be worried about other folks.

If I like you we're going to be doing shit together and that includes regular things in public.

I'm hella confident in myself and go for what I want, always have been, always will be.