methodman, you're an original, and I respect you because we have t-girls in common, but keeping shit like cell phones and the biggest secret of all, fucking around with t-girls is a recipe for disaster, BIG TIME!
I'm not telling you how to run your life or how you do your thing, but fucking around with another gg is one thing, but trying to explain to your wife you have a hard dick for a transsexuals is another! That information trickles down throughout your near family, and worst of all hers!
A good friend of mine, who's married with three daughters, was fucking around with a real young chick. I mean, this dame was fine as sand dust! I told him to be careful because he was fucking her everytime he saw her. Well, you don't have to guess what happened next; he got her pregnant! He came to me worried as hell, because he said he didn't want to break up his family of 16 years. I told him he had some decisions to make; better now than hiding this fact, 18 years from now; after the lies and creeping he's done. He fessed up to his wife and kept her from being pissed off and holding the incident over his head. The baby is now five and part of his nuclear family! I just think how his life would be if he kept this on the"downlow"!
I would seriously think about what you are doing to keep the gorilla out of the room!
I'm glad I'm single and unattached so I won't have to hide what I do with my life!
Just my opinion and its your ballgame!