It's in a woman's nature to be submissive. Trans women are no different. The whole reason why a woman wants you to pull her hair during sex or slap on her on the butt is because she wants to be dominated and lead by her male counter part or feel he is superior to her. Anytime a woman detects femininity or a lack masculinity in a man, she will lose respect him almost immediately and it is not something that is easy to gain back.