Quote Originally Posted by MrF View Post
Some transwomen are proud to have "something extra" because, as one TGirl explained to me once, it "makes (her) unique". In her mind, the penis contributed to her unique form of beauty as a transwoman.

I think it would be a good strategy to avoid the subject of "something extra" or the "special lady" complement. Just tell her she's beautiful, that you like her, and so on. Avoid differentiating her from other women or asking questions about what it's like to be a transwoman, etc. A lot of TGirls are wary of guys who may be "dick fetishists". Maybe that's part of why you like her, but keep it subtle.

BTW, the girl I mentioned above became someone's housewife last I heard. She was quite beautiful and passable but didn't do any porn. At the time I met her she was in between relationships and trying to make money from "upscale, mature clients" (that was me, lol), but predictably she got "wifed up" and left me pretty soon after I met her. That was 6 years ago. Sigh.
I would say follow her lead as to how she likes to be referred to, and her level
of comfortability with her genital status.

I know that I have mentioned in another thread that I have never put my
penis in any orifice of a man. In lay-terms I had never fucked a man, or had
one suck me off.

What's so interesting is that I never had a man try to make the move to the
penis, and back in the day I kicked it with more than my fair share.

On another forum I was reading someone's post that stated that men today
seem to have different sexual predilections. It didn't seem like there was the
emphasis on the woman being fully-functional like there is today.

Glad I left tranny-town while the getting was good.