This guy was talking to a TGirl. Pre-op not Post-op.
I think the term, "A Special Lady" is being polite. Would you rather he be blunt and say, I don't meet many Tranny's like you around here?
This girl took offense to nothing.
And like it's been stated, we don't have the whole conversation.
I agree with the others, let that one slide on by. Plenty more girls out there to bang your head against a wall over. LOL!