Quote Originally Posted by KitWilkins View Post
Oh boy, here you go assuming that i'm some dumb bitch who's just sat up in suburbia all her life.


If you want to date a prostitute, that's on you. But I personally feel like that's asking for trouble. Perhaps I'm wrong and I do know of some women who are sex workers or sell their transgendered status who do have relationships. However, I think that a man who is expecting to find a quality connection with a woman who profits off of her own exploitation, should perhaps look elsewhere. I know there are good girls in the business, but I've often found that all men are to some extent jealous. I haven't heard of many successful relationships where one of the parties is doing something that is generally considered something intimate between lovers.

If you're a comfortable man who is ok with seeing your girl with multipul partners, then go you! It's great to find that sense of security in a man. Most men, however just aren't that secure. And honestly you really have to consider that for a lot of transsexuals, their body and their beauty is their commodity. It's what helps the sustain their transition and it's what helps them survive.I've met plenty of tgirls who do not have an education or any way to support themselves aside from the life of sex work. And when that's your life and your world, it's hard to build those strong connections. And generally the things that most sex workers do, would cause a rift in a relationship.

Please feel free to correct me if I'm incorrect in any way shape or form. But i'd say MOST men wouldn't feel comfortable -dating- a prostitute. Like i said, correct me if I'm wrong.

And as someone who has been previously exploited sexually, I can tell you that while sex may be great, when it's what you have to do and it's your duty, it takes on a different context. And maybe I'm the only tgirl that feels like this since my opinions are obviously so closedminded and inexperienced, but I would MUCH rather have a man respect me for the thousands of other things i can do for him aside from sex. I find relationships are better when you can tolerate eachother even when you aren't having sex. Like I said, again correct me if I'm wrong.

Maybe I"m the only one that feels like this, but I want an actual connection. A romantic and emotional connection. Sex is a given. And often times when i've tried to date a guy because he's hot or he has a big dick, that's the only good thing about him. I'd rather settle for a 7 with a personality and a great brain than a 10 with absolutely nothing going for him.
Baby, you aren't a dumb suburban bitch, nooo, you're just a Loon without feathers! Seriously, you're entitled to your opinion. However, if you click your heels together, three times, you might make it back to reality!