Quote Originally Posted by stefon View Post
Just Ignore Dont waste your breath. he will problably cut his wrists Lol
ISSUES lol mad at the world becuase he has AIDS lol but yer MOVING ON.
God you're dumb. If you took like 2 seconds to look at a thread other than your own, you would have seen the thread where i posted photos of my breasts. hahaha. You are a dumbass. Compleltey.

And I HAVE answered your question. I can't help it if you're too fucking stupid to understand.

@Remy: Yes, ok. I have met men like that. Plenty. And I guess I do dismiss them. It does bother me that people associate all transsexual women with pornography. Porn is a fantasy. I wish more men would take the initiative to view trans women as something other than a fetish or a dirty tabbo thing they do behind their computer screens. I guess when I hear a man ask what a transsexual is considered, all I can say is "Wow what a dumb question", but I guess that it's not that obvious to most people. You know, the whole gender disphoria thing and hormones to become female and surgeries. I guess aside from that, it's hard to decipher if a transsexual idenitfies as male or female. I've met a couple of tgirls who have all the full blown sugury and STILL identify as partly male. Which does confuse me

I think that the trans world is really really really complex and if you're going to be man navigating it, choose your words carefully. I try not to overreact when men ask me what i call dumb questions, but sometimes it's hard not to when to me the answers are so blatantly obvious.

I think a lot of men go through their fetish phase of life and at some point come to the realization that tgirls are women and that they aren't all hypersexualized creatures that feed into their tabboo delights. I guess i find that whole view of tgirls to be very demeaning. Which is probably why i reacted the way I did. It's sorta demeaning to view a tgirl as anything but female or at least mostly predominately female.

I feel like a man who has hesitations with transsexuals just needs to jump right in. I've gone on a few dates with "first timers" and they were all really surprised at how heterosexual the dynamic was.