Quote Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
lol...who ever told you sex was free is duping you big time.whether or not your paying a flat fee or dinner,movies and a bottle its still money.
Nah, that's rubbish and self-perpetuating. If you believe that, then you'll only date guys who reach in their pocket for you ... and guys who might be interested in you but have a different perspective on life would either be thrown out by you or not interested as they'd perceive you as a money grabber.

When I dated, I'd be happy enough to pay for dinner, movie, etc. but if she wasn't reaching into her pocket by the second date to at least offer to pay, buy the popcorn, buy a round of drinks, then she was out - her loss.