For me, 'discreet' means my and the other persons business...sex wise, anyway. I like both GG and TS, and I've actually taken a few out in public (bowling, clubs, etc.). And like bg100 says, I don't go around telling the whole world I like TS, but if they see me with one, well, they just see me with one.

I haven't outright told my fam (they might have found some TS porn on my computer) but if I found one who I cared about (And really cared and gave a damn about me), then I would have no problem making her my main thang.