ESCORTS::i knowu guys probably talked about it but whats the deal

[TsBrooklynMattel]

okay so, im finding this to be a huge trend. EVERY TRANSSEXUAL I HAVE EVER MET HAS BEEN AN ESCORT. VARIETY OF REASONS.( I dont knock them at all because i listen & understand to reasoning) What gets me are the guys who want a tsgirlfriend to look like a supermodel everyday & dont contribute to that process. Ive seen guys tell their ts girlfriend she should escort, & other guys who dont want her to escort but talks about the ease it would be. it frustrates me & confuses me. & it seems to me that guys tend to me more respectful towards these escorts, either way if they agree with it or not. somebody please explain to me.??

[CosmicTraveler]

My ex was escorting. I didn't particularly mind but I was always worried when she went out. However I didn't feel I was in any position to say " Stop that! " or anything when I wasn't able to provide her with what she needed... Plus she seemed to like it and we were in an open relationship anyhow.

I dunno about that super model bit, as I preferred her to be without make up even though she didn't like not wearing it.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

i know that for alot of ts transitioning makeup is their life bc they arent blessed looking like they just won a FACE walking competition or a modeling contract. Passing is one reason why alot of ts wear makeup. .. But okay thats one. view. thanks luv

[ty-clone]

okay so, im finding this to be a huge trend. EVERY TRANSSEXUAL I HAVE EVER MET HAS BEEN AN ESCORT. VARIETY OF REASONS.( I dont knock them at all because i listen & understand to reasoning) What gets me are the guys who want a tsgirlfriend to look like a supermodel everyday & dont contribute to that process. Ive seen guys tell their ts girlfriend she should escort, & other guys who dont want her to escort but talks about the ease it would be. it frustrates me & confuses me. & it seems to me that guys tend to me more respectful towards these escorts, either way if they agree with it or not. somebody please explain to me.??

really, u find more guys to be respectful to escort then none-escort. not sure about that one, but i'll take ur word for it.

[vidman]

okay so, im finding this to be a huge trend. EVERY TRANSSEXUAL I HAVE EVER MET HAS BEEN AN ESCORT. VARIETY OF REASONS.( I dont knock them at all because i listen & understand to reasoning) What gets me are the guys who want a tsgirlfriend to look like a supermodel everyday & dont contribute to that process. Ive seen guys tell their ts girlfriend she should escort, & other guys who dont want her to escort but talks about the ease it would be. it frustrates me & confuses me. & it seems to me that guys tend to me more respectful towards these escorts, either way if they agree with it or not. somebody please explain to me.??

...because I understand what transsexuals got through in a society where trangendered people aren't fully accepted. I may not be able to empathize, but I can definitely feel the pain of waking up every morning having to deal with closed minded people who can't seem to process more than the image they see in the mirror.

I also agree with Cosmo when he points out the fact that a lot of men aren't in financial positions to take care of his transsexual woman. Therefore, who am I to tell my woman how to provide for herself.

I have the utmost respect for transsexuals. I think you ladies are unique, strong and have amazing drive and determination.

[Ms Remy M]

okay so, im finding this to be a huge trend. EVERY TRANSSEXUAL I HAVE EVER MET HAS BEEN AN ESCORT. VARIETY OF REASONS.

*ear perk, readjusts the diamond, and stroll over to you, cue the Roc-a-Fella music*

Hi, Allow me to introduce myself, my name is Remy. I do not and never have in my life been an escort. I find 'not' being a statistic thrilling and example leading. I hope you never have to utter such a sad sentence as was stated above. I can graciously introduce you to a great many trans women, that get up and clock in 40hrs a week, blending with society and being a healthy and productive citizen.

I too, have dated ts that escort. My first relationship which lasted 4 years, the first year I decided being new to the LGBT lifestyle, I wanted to be as open minded and accepting of what it may entail. Eventually, logic prevailed, the risk is simply not worth the reward. Mind you, this was a time when Eros was hallowed ground for the best of the best and majority of girls worked the 'stroll'. I worked 12-14hr days to provide for us during rest of relationship so she wouldn't 'have' to work the stroll.

[mrvice]

i mean not all ts do escort like the ones i have met and also hangout with a few who are basically doing careers and not doing the strolll which kinda impress me the most in a woman

[CosmicTraveler]

There's also Ms Peggy Gee. She's a fine example of a transwoman... I tell you if I thought I had a chance I'd... err... uhhh... Never mind.

[raheme]

I think its more cultural/race based. Almost every young black ts I've chatted up with online is a hoe/escort (yes, there is a difference). Also true for many of the younger latina chicks. White/asian/other, not so much.
Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why though. Black and brown men/boys are more likely to come from poorer families than asian/white/other. Most hoes/escorts choose the lifestyle for monetary reasons.
I'm pretty sure if you took a random selection of 10 white/asian/other ts in america 90% of them would come from solid middle to upper middle households. If you did the same thing with black/latina ts 9 out of 10 would come from poverty or lower middle class backgrounds. Its why we (black guys) find girls like amber (thegirlnextdoor) different/refreshing because she represents that rare 10% in black/brown america that doesn't come from the hood even though she chooses to escort.
Perhaps it has something to do with the house/mother culture in the black trans world. Where things like drugs and promiscuity are encouraged rather than talked about in a more mature/educated manner.
Idk

[werwt22]

sorry but imma get a little raw in this one. fuck escorting. you wanna sell yourselves to men and then get mad when they look at you as a piece of meat. Accept it for what it is. I dont like it, but I understand escorting to get where you need to be "physically", but when youve reached the goal your chasing, why still do it? Dont get me wrong, I love porn...but when im looking for wifey material, escorting doesnt exactly fall @ the top of my list.

If your trying to transition then you could always work a 9-5 and pay for what you want like everyone else. Instead of dubs on the whip, you could buy ..., instead of partying in miami this month and LA the next you could buy ... I always had to save my hard earned money to buy the things i wanted and to me escorting is just taking "the easy route", but it destroys you emotionally and makes it hard to have a meaningful relationship (IMO). Using escorting as an excuse because we wont pay for it is a terrible reason. Its one thing if you meet someone that truly loves you and wants to help with the process, but im not buying you an ass that some random mans dick gone fall up in soon as it heals up LOL.

Thats just me. Hope not to offend anyone but I cannot tell a lie just to get in good with the girls.