Quote Originally Posted by dieselb View Post
It's hard because, not everybody is accepting of it. I hear a lot of people say if they were really your friends then they would accept it. It's not always true, is it worth the risk to loose your family, and your friends over it. When you don't know if the relationship will actually last. It's a huge risk, because your friends will think you are gay, should the relationship not work out, will be hard to date gg. It's just a huge gamble. Homosexuality is not accepted by everyone, even though, it's a transexual woman, it's still viewed as homosexuality. That's why a lot of guys, who like it, will do it on the d.l. to avoid the consequences of family and friends finding out.
You know, at one point, Blacks couldn't date whites, people use to die over it. It's hardly that serious with dating trans women, where you 'may' have to deal with familial rejection. People always assume, family and friends are going to freak out, but at the end of the day most will realize It's No Big Deal. If your friend stop liking you because you are happy with a trans woman than they were not your friends to begin with, you can always make more.

There's no gamble, women are not going to stop liking you all of a sudden, that sounds silly. Damn hilarious hearing guys act like the genetic girls don't like trans women themselves, perhaps they are just putting on the same front you are, and both the fools sitting there wishing they had the best of both worlds by their side.