Quote Originally Posted by Ms Remy M View Post
It's more of a perceived social pressure, because as everyone who has come out can tell you, there's a huge weight coming off those shoulders when a person comes out, and it's like "wow, what the hell was I waiting for" You only have one life to live, don't spend it appeasing family and friends lol that would really be a waste of a life.

Seriously, I just watched a documentary last month "Worst Place To Be Gay" it was an African Nation. The death penalty is leveled quickly toward gays there, and guess what, people still come out openly and they have real problems and ignorance amongst the people to contend with.
I saw a video with some African preacher going on and on about what gays do in the privacy of their own home ( his words ) and how wrong it was. He went on to describe a number of sexual acts that in all honesty I doubt were common amongst people of any sexual orientation. This is one of the major reasons I'm against anyone who mumbles about going back to the " Motherland. " It's hot and there are lions. No.