ESCORTS::i knowu guys probably talked about it but whats the deal

[CosmicTraveler]

Totally agree! Just because a girl gets into 'character' on here a porn site, doesn't mean that when out and about that's how they act. That's like expecting Eddie Murphy to act like Professor Klump 24/7

I don't think The Golden Child would have been as funny...

I wonder if male porn actors get the same kind of treatment that females do? Then again when I think about that reality show where Tracy Bingham tried to yank Ron Jeremy's pants off... I guess it's a hard world for anyone in front of the camera. =/

[Ms Remy M]

I don't think The Golden Child would have been as funny...

I wonder if male porn actors get the same kind of treatment that females do? Then again when I think about that reality show where Tracy Bingham tried to yank Ron Jeremy's pants off... I guess it's a hard world for anyone in front of the camera. =/

I love that movie, my soda can, can dance too's! lol

It is just as bad, nobody wants to be treated like an object to be turned on and used whenever it suits a 'fans' fancy.

[CosmicTraveler]

I love that movie, my soda can, can dance too's! lol

It is just as bad, nobody wants to be treated like an object to be turned on and used whenever it suits a 'fans' fancy.

Indeed, it's a horrible feeling to be used. For some people at least.

[peggygee]

I apologize for my tardiness in responding to this thread, as I am just
now seeing it, and will be uncustomarily brief as I am running late for work.

I can say that I have no moral or ethical qualms about a woman working in
the sex industry, just as long as she has an exit strategy in place.

In response to:

There's also Ms Peggy Gee. She's a fine example of a transwoman... I tell you if I thought I had a chance I'd... err... uhhh... Never mind.

I humbly thank you for your gracious compliment.

As regards:

I see so many contradictions on here its laughable. Don't claim the 'friends' that like you when your clothes are off, your ass is out, or your sucking cock. How many of these 'admirers' would still admire you if you only made post based on intellect and charm like ms peggy gee? She's been posting for years quality stuff yet dudes don't give her any love, much like remy (before the transition), but let a chick whip a dick or tit out and now suddenly she's a fucking celeb on here with 1000 friends.

To me a friend is someone who calls or text u during the day just to say hey or what's up, without the offer or lure of sex being anywhere on the table. Starting this kind of friendship with a ts is damn near impossible because most ts are so fucking guarded or jaded thinking that every man is out to get them.......

Rah

I often hear women trans and natal complain that men
speak to and approach them rudely and crudely.

I can honestly say that I don't have that problem as I don't put forth a
persona that would cause people to step to me in that manner. I like to
feel that I come across as an intelligent, serious woman, albeit with a great
sense of humor, but by no means a woman that is an easy conquest.

Then too, on the trans-forums, the fact that I am a gyno-American keeps the
guys from fetishizing me, as I have a vagina and not a penis, thus for the
most part I am of no interest to many of them.


And finally:

I mostly agree here, I live in a very conservative state, and I know many ts, and even ts that are not so 'passable' successfully working 9-5 jobs. Many of the girls don't bother to try for jobs in the sectors that are generally LGBT friendly. Our local Lambda chapter keeps an updated list of all LGBT friendly companies and even hosts Job Fairs, so there's hardly an excuse. Many ts don't bother to take advantage of the programs that are set up to help them. Others tend to screw themselves by having criminal records, lying on applications, failing to get name/picture change on ID.

I have had mainstream employment for decades, even in the so-called "bad
old days", before there was trans-rights legislation on the books.

Why was I so fortunate, and others seems to experience so much difficulty?

1. I have always realized that "Knowledge was power". Thus I realized that
education would be key, no matter what my gender was. As such I have
marketable skill-sets, and have never been unemployed for any prolonged
period of time.

2. Early in my transition I had all of my documents amended so that they
would be congruent with my gender. A woman can not apply and obtain a
job if her appearance says "Eve", but her documentation says "Steve".

3. "Passing privilege" - also early in my transition I did all that was in my
power to ensure that my appearance was in sync with the woman that
I was. Anyone that knows me, knows that I was very, very serious about my
transition. Thus whatever surgical, endocrinological mediation I required, I
did so. And I of course worked on my psyche and spirit as well.

To those women that say that "all men want is sex, so they might as well
charge for it", I must beg to differ with you.

Have a talk with your Mother, Sister, Auntie, or any natal female that you
know, and they will tell you that it's the nature of the beast, that it is man's
biological imperative to spread his seed, and as women we are the soil that
he will attempt to do so with.

[raheme]

I apologize for my tardiness in responding to this thread, as I am just
now seeing it, and will be uncustomarily brief as I am running late for work.

I can say that I have no moral or ethical qualms about a woman working in
the sex industry, just as long as she has an exit strategy in place.

In response to:



I humbly thank you for your gracious compliment.

As regards:



I often hear women trans and natal complain that men
speak to and approach them rudely and crudely.

I can honestly say that I don't have that problem as I don't put forth a
persona that would cause people to step to me in that manner. I like to
feel that I come across as an intelligent, serious woman, albeit with a great
sense of humor, but by no means a woman that is an easy conquest.

Then too, on the trans-forums, the fact that I am a gyno-American keeps the
guys from fetishizing me, as I have a vagina and not a penis, thus for the
most part I am of no interest to many of them.


And finally:




I have had mainstream employment for decades, even in the so-called "bad
old days", before there was trans-rights legislation on the books.

Why was I so fortunate, and others seems to experience so much difficulty?

1. I have always realized that "Knowledge was power". Thus I realized that
education would be key, no matter what my gender was. As such I have
marketable skill-sets, and have never been unemployed for any prolonged
period of time.

2. Early in my transition I had all of my documents amended so that they
would be congruent with my gender. A woman can not apply and obtain a
job if her appearance says "Eve", but her documentation says "Steve".

3. "Passing privilege" - also early in my transition I did all that was in my
power to ensure that my appearance was in sync with the woman that
I was. Anyone that knows me, knows that I was very, very serious about my
transition. Thus whatever surgical, endocrinological mediation I required, I
did so. And I of course worked on my psyche and spirit as well.

To those women that say that "all men want is sex, so they might as well
charge for it", I must beg to differ with you.

Have a talk with your Mother, Sister, Auntie, or any natal female that you
know, and they will tell you that it's the nature of the beast, that it is man's
biological imperative to spread his seed, and as women we are the soil that
he will attempt to do so with.

You are truly awesome. You stay dropping knowledge. Such a shame that more young girls don't listen to what you have to say.

[Ms Remy M]

I apologize for my tardiness in responding to this thread, as I am just
now seeing it, and will be uncustomarily brief as I am running late for work.

I can say that I have no moral or ethical qualms about a woman working in
the sex industry, just as long as she has an exit strategy in place.

In response to:



I humbly thank you for your gracious compliment.

As regards:



I often hear women trans and natal complain that men
speak to and approach them rudely and crudely.

I can honestly say that I don't have that problem as I don't put forth a
persona that would cause people to step to me in that manner. I like to
feel that I come across as an intelligent, serious woman, albeit with a great
sense of humor, but by no means a woman that is an easy conquest.

Then too, on the trans-forums, the fact that I am a gyno-American keeps the
guys from fetishizing me, as I have a vagina and not a penis, thus for the
most part I am of no interest to many of them.


And finally:




I have had mainstream employment for decades, even in the so-called "bad
old days", before there was trans-rights legislation on the books.

Why was I so fortunate, and others seems to experience so much difficulty?

1. I have always realized that "Knowledge was power". Thus I realized that
education would be key, no matter what my gender was. As such I have
marketable skill-sets, and have never been unemployed for any prolonged
period of time.

2. Early in my transition I had all of my documents amended so that they
would be congruent with my gender. A woman can not apply and obtain a
job if her appearance says "Eve", but her documentation says "Steve".

3. "Passing privilege" - also early in my transition I did all that was in my
power to ensure that my appearance was in sync with the woman that
I was. Anyone that knows me, knows that I was very, very serious about my
transition. Thus whatever surgical, endocrinological mediation I required, I
did so. And I of course worked on my psyche and spirit as well.

To those women that say that "all men want is sex, so they might as well
charge for it", I must beg to differ with you.

Have a talk with your Mother, Sister, Auntie, or any natal female that you
know, and they will tell you that it's the nature of the beast, that it is man's
biological imperative to spread his seed, and as women we are the soil that
he will attempt to do so with.

Thank you for that wonderful post, I wish more girls would see that the sex industry is not all that we have. There are many other options, take advantage of the opportunities (with porn) as they arise, but don't make it your end all, be all goal. These men are very fickle and will toss you to the side the moment the shoot is over and next weeks crop of models debut.

You are truly awesome. You stay dropping knowledge. Such a shame that more young girls don't listen to what you have to say.

Indeed, I wish more girls would come and see what an awesome person PeggyGee is and aspire to be like her, instead of some pornstar or video vixen.

[CosmicTraveler]

These men are very fickle and will toss you to the side the moment the shoot is over and next weeks crop of models debut.

How is that any different from any other human being anywhere?

[aaronk]

good discussion here folks reminds me ssooooo much of what i went through with an ex of mine..

[Ms Remy M]

How is that any different from any other human being anywhere?

haha, you are going to call me on all my feminist moments aren't you. That's totally okay though. To answer your question, yes it does seem that way. In the music industry I saw many things that disgusted me, as far as how people are treated (like commodities among other things). During those years, I'll even admit that I was part of the problem. Exactly why I try to fight it every which way I can.

[CosmicTraveler]

haha, you are going to call me on all my feminist moments aren't you. That's totally okay though. To answer your question, yes it does seem that way. In the music industry I saw many things that disgusted me, as far as how people are treated (like commodities among other things). During those years, I'll even admit that I was part of the problem. Exactly why I try to fight it every which way I can.

Honestly, I feel like I don't have much of a choice. 1) I think all humans are shit, 2) I'm still somewhat of a man. ( I'm not even halfway through this damn road. ) So yeah, I pretty much have to.

Sure there are plenty of instances of men treating women like property or in horrible ways. But there are just as many women if not more treating men like they're just good for buying them things, taking them places, it's a two sided street. I'm a little addled right now so I can't think of all my points or even get the ones I'm making across directly but... I do hate to be swept up in general statements like that ma'am. - ___- Honestly, it bugs me to know you think of me that way, even if slightly.