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Ahhhh, good looking out Kila. Search function is my friend. lol. I'll get right on it. Thanks again Kila.

And yeah, I don't see why anyone would have a reason to be a total asshole unless that person is provoked, but hey, she may have done something to J.Money to provoke his inflamed reaction towards her. That's why I try not to jump to conclusions about anyone's personal opinion because you never know what one may have gone through to obtain that type of temperment towards someone. I know I've been pissed off by a few people on this site and I wouldn't appreciate it if people ganged up on me about it, not really knowing the full story. Not saying I agree with J.Money's approach, but I can definitely feel where he's coming from to an extent.
lol I'm not trying to gang up on him. He came to a trans forum promoting violence toward trans women, to not expect an appropriate response is foolish. I could have banned him out right, but I felt I should hear him out. There has been times, when people here piss me off as well, but that doesn't give me the right to go and smash their face in. His argument, was "If u go just about anywhere, and continually insult a person face to face, u got an ass whipping coming more than likely. And it is deserved." I disagreed with that and it applies to all of us, not just trans women.

My strong stance on this is only partially due to being trans. I've worked with women shelter in past, and have seen many domestic violence cases, and he displays the same characteristics with his words, as the men that beat their girlfriends/wives. My own sister was murdered by her husband, over a verbal dispute. So I know full well what people that justify violence, over an argument are capable of. He didn't mention anything about being maced until someone else posted a video about MiMi. Self defense is a different situation from someone just yelling and fussing at each other.

Guys that have attitudes likes his, represent the real dangers women, and trans women in particular face. Due to his anonymity and the very public stance many trans women display, stating their locations, and showing their faces, he can walk up to 'MiMi' for example and catch her off guard, bringing grave physical harm to her and she would be unprepared not knowing what he looks like. So, knowing that he would feel justified in hurting anybody that pissed him off, is a real issue that shouldn't be taken lightly. For all we know, he can be the next Craigslist Killer just waiting to explode.

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