ladies: if u knew a girl had a disease

[carmencream]

@Bigdicki I hear where you are coming from, but when I was younger I disclosed a girl in Atlanta's status to a friend . But because he wanted her so badly he ran back and told her she denied it , Said I was a hater and jealous of her because she was prettier ,She threatened my life and I lost my friend, she is now dead and he is positive I see him hanging out downtown everytime I visit Atlanta.So the moral of the story is stay out of other ppl's affairs because at the end of the day ppl are going to do whatever they want to do and leave their morals at the door! seen it time and time again,Wake up ppl it's time for us to be Accountable for ourselves! I respect your opinion and this again is only mine and the way I handle the issue.

[Ms Remy M]

An infectious disease like hiv, herpes, etc. And she was still escorting would you out her or try to convince her that what she's doing is wrong?

How far does the pink wall of silence extend?

Condoms aren't 100% effective, some times they break and some diseases like crabs can still be caught with the use of condoms.

Seems like whenever a girl dies young because of an std you'll here other girls comment on her death knowing that she was sick but still seeing clients but you never here them say that she was wrong for doing so.

Drop the "pink wall of silence" stuff cause it's not about any particular loyalty to anyone. I wouldn't tell anyone's status because it's none of my business to do so. People are so entrenched in this "reality tv show" mentality where everyone business is open for judgement and criticism, but I despise that shit.

If I know/suspect someone is positive I wouldn't mess with them and if you are a close friend of mine, I will say "be careful" or "don't do that" I'm not going to give "x,y,z" on the matter though. I always recommend people play safe many times on this forum, as I see guys talking about sucking dick and eating cum and all these dangerous activities. I fear HPV the most, and like was said with cervical cancer with women, men are largely getting oral cancer, warts, etc from HPV. With HPV, all you have to do is have unprotected oral sex, kiss someone, touch their genitals, with HPV and you can get it too. At the end of the day, it is the men, especially the P4P crowd that are putting themselves at risk with so many different partners. We all went to sex ed in school, this isn't 1940. If you want to run around and risk getting infected and bringing that shit back to your loved ones that is your prerogative and none of my business. So enjoy your life, do what makes you happy, but for every action there is a reaction and you chose to take that action and were not forced into it at all, so live up to what you've exposed yourself to.

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[vidman]

Drop the "pink wall of silence" stuff cause it's not about any particular loyalty to anyone. I wouldn't tell anyone's status because it's none of my business to do so. People are so entrenched in this "reality tv show" mentality where everyone business is open for judgement and criticism, but I despise that shit.

If I know/suspect someone is positive I wouldn't mess with them and if you are a close friend of mine, I will say "be careful" or "don't do that" I'm not going to give "x,y,z" on the matter though. I always recommend people play safe many times on this forum, as I see guys talking about sucking dick and eating cum and all these dangerous activities. I fear HPV the most, and like was said with cervical cancer with women, men are largely getting oral cancer, warts, etc from HPV. With HPV, all you have to do is have unprotected oral sex, kiss someone, touch their genitals, with HPV and you can get it too. At the end of the day, it is the men, especially the P4P crowd that are putting themselves at risk with so many different partners. We all went to sex ed in school, this isn't 1940. If you want to run around and risk getting infected and bringing that shit back to your loved ones that is your prerogative and none of my business. So enjoy your life, do what makes you happy, but for every action there is a reaction and you chose to take that action and were not forced into it at all, so live up to what you've exposed yourself to.

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Agreed! That's all I was trying to say in my post when I said, "we are obligated......" The only thing I can do is tell someone to be careful. If one of my boys came to me and said that he met such & such last night and they were supposed to hook up tonight, the ONLY thing I will tell him is to protect himself. I would never say that such & such has xyz. Not my place. I would emphasize that he needs to protect himself. That's all I was saying.

[raheme]

I have to disagree with this. If you know someone has something like Herpes or HIV then you MUST tell anyone you KNOW about it that could be fucking with them. Decisions are based on the knowledge one has at any given moment. If you know someone is going to possibly run across an infected person, then I feel one is obligated to let people know. Furthermore, if a trick or hoe is having sex with people for money and NOT telling people they are infected, it should be a criminal offense.

I agree with the "be safe" advice, but overall, in my opinion that's not enough.

I believe it is a criminal offense in most states for a knowigly infected person to have sex with an individual without disclosing it. However, prostitution is illegal in all but 1 state sowhere does morality really fit into this convo? That's actually one of the reasons opponents of prostitutuion use to speak ill of the trade.

These girls live by a code obviously, them vs everybody else so I can't really fault carmen for saying what she feels. I don't agree with it but I also don't have to live/walk in her shoes.

[carmencream]

I believe it is a criminal offense in most states for a knowigly infected person to have sex with an individual without disclosing it. However, prostitution is illegal in all but 1 state sowhere does morality really fit into this convo? That's actually one of the reasons opponents of prostitutuion use to speak ill of the trade.

These girls live by a code obviously, them vs everybody else so I can't really fault carmen for saying what she feels. I don't agree with it but I also don't have to live/walk in her shoes.

What is this code someone please tell me? And your right you don't have to agree with me ,you asked a question I answered. It's funny when ppl post on here then when they don't get the answer they wan't it's some kind of conspiracy lol.Next subject please! I can only live my own life no one else's.

[twowaybro]

Now, what I am saying is that a) we have the moral responsibility to inform someone we know if you know they will or might have sex with someone who is infected and b) it should be a specific criminal act for a person who knows they have an STD to have sex with someone else and not tell them.

Totally in agreement. If someone that i know or who i am close to is about to engage in an act of copulation with an individual that i know to be infected with a life threatening STD how could i not warn them. If one's moral compass is correct it would pain her/his conscience to no ends.

[carmencream]

Totally in agreement. If someone that i know or who i am close to is about to engage in an act of copulation with an individual that i know to be infected with a life threatening STD how could i not warn them. If one's moral compass is correct it would pain her/his conscience to no ends.

That is not the question he asked! He never asked would you warn someone you knew or that you were close to. I believe the question was to the ladies and like someone said b4 don't bring morality into the discussion, there is no place for it on a porn forum where ppl brag about laying up and how much they paid a chick who has the biggest dick etc etc etc .

[bigdicki]

@Bigdicki I hear where you are coming from, but when I was younger I disclosed a girl in Atlanta's status to a friend . But because he wanted her so badly he ran back and told her she denied it , Said I was a hater and jealous of her because she was prettier ,She threatened my life and I lost my friend, she is now dead and he is positive I see him hanging out downtown everytime I visit Atlanta.So the moral of the story is stay out of other ppl's affairs because at the end of the day ppl are going to do whatever they want to do and leave their morals at the door! seen it time and time again,Wake up ppl it's time for us to be Accountable for ourselves! I respect your opinion and this again is only mine and the way I handle the issue.

Much respect to your post and sorry you lost your friend. However, I believe you did the right thing. Doing the right thing doesn't always end in a good result (i.e. the white freedom fighters who were killed in Mississippi comes to mind) but it is still the right thing to do. I always thought you had a good heart; now I know why I like you (and Pinky) so much.

[bigdicki]

I believe it is a criminal offense in most states for a knowigly infected person to have sex with an individual without disclosing it. However, prostitution is illegal in all but 1 state sowhere does morality really fit into this convo? That's actually one of the reasons opponents of prostitutuion use to speak ill of the trade.

These girls live by a code obviously, them vs everybody else so I can't really fault carmen for saying what she feels. I don't agree with it but I also don't have to live/walk in her shoes.

I didn't say RELIGIOUS MORALITY. Morality and religion are often in opposition. If it feels better for you to use the word ethics, then substitute that. The point is that one should always choose to do the right thing and to me and many others the right thing is to inform someone who may not know that they are risking their life or health to a greater degree than they planned.

[DYNACORD]

I sure as hell hope someone would warn me about another person that I may want to talk to. I don't need a specific, as far as their health, but a "Stay Away" would be nice. That's all it would take for me to hit the road.

Sorry, but I feel morals do play a part in this whole topic. But as stated previously, this too is my opinion.