Escort Question??

[andwar]

NOT THE SAME. I have taken a female to dinner, a movie and out for drinks with no expectation of sex. Hell, ive had sex with ts and gg's who wanted nothing but to have sex with me Would you in turn go see an escort and give her money and accept not getting any? No, you wouldnt.

I wish dudes would stop coming up with shit to psychologically make them feel better about shit they do.

Ps. I have nothing against escorts or the men who use them. Just do what you do and stop making up shit to make yourself feel better about it

Roc i feel that everyone is intitled to there oppinion,I Don't have to make up a damn thing for what I do.And I feel it is the same when it comes to your motives or intentions being based on having sex.

[GroobySteven]

NOT THE SAME. I have taken a female to dinner, a movie and out for drinks with no expectation of sex.

Why did you take her out? (unless she was Mother/Sister/etc.)

[HEATHER HUNG]

Its call life you only have one no one was put on this earth to judge you whatever you choose to do with your money is your decision your grown. I'm a pornstarr/escort.

I have an escort question for the forum. I just spent the weekend with a woman from another Grooby site. I paid her a fee of $5000 a night for the entire weekend. I thought the rate was reasonable but another forum member who I know said I was crazy.
His reasoning:
1. never pay that much money for a tranny
2. I should never spend the night with a tranny.
3. Tranny's don't need romance, they just need to be fucked.

Personally I disagree with him on all of the above. What do you guys think?

[selfmade23]

Yes you paid a sex worker money to spend time and obviously have sex with, but so what....big deal. It really doesnt matter how much you spent, 5000 grand or 500. 5 Grand might not be a lot to you and if the experience was worth it,then do you . How does Jay- Z, say it " What's fifty grand to a nigga like him. I am not saying that you Jay-Z but maybe five grand doesnt mean as much to you for the experience as it does to others. This past weekend people spent a lot more then that to see a super bowl which is basically 3 to 4 hour climax, bottled inside a 3 day weekend event. Super bowl tickets alone cost minimum 5 grand and then for everything else...You know they spent more then what you spent for the experience, but to them it was worth it. If the superbowl in Indy was anything like the two I have been two in Miami, there was a lot of tricking going on as well. Now me, that is a Big screen, a new Xbox, surround sound, etc .. That experience is not as important to me. But as long as your experience was worth is and that five grand isnt making you miss the mortage, rent or car payments..man, do you .

As for tricks being desperate and the whole " I aint never paying for sex" exclamation that dudes like to say. What is the big deal. There are professional athletes, Actors, powerful business men that in most cases, can have any woman they want for free. They pay all the time,(a lot more then 5 grand) as we often see all over the News. A man shouldnt feel any less a man because he chose to pay for sex( an erotic adventure) any more then a bungee jumper, snowboarder,backpacker traveler etc. Life is all about living it, as long as you dont hurt anyone in the process.You have your own personal reasons for doing what you did and at the end of the day, only you have to deal with any consequences or feelings that come of it. If you got it, and you want it how you want it, man do you.

[thegreat1]

Why did you take her out? (unless she was Mother/Sister/etc.)

I found her mentally stimulating and wanted to get to know her better. Wasnt sexually attracted to her at all. Unlike most dudes, my motives arent always sexually or physically motivated. If i like a woman's mentality, i just as interested in spending time with her as if i were sexually interested

[GroobySteven]

I found her mentally stimulating and wanted to get to know her better. Wasnt sexually attracted to her at all. Unlike most dudes, my motives arent always sexually or physically motivated. If i like a woman's mentality, i just as interested in spending time with her as if i were sexually interested

Then why make the point she was a woman? Would you take a man out for dinner, drinks and a movie?

You had absolutely no interest in getting into ther pants at all?

[thegreat1]

Then why make the point she was a woman? Would you take a man out for dinner, drinks and a movie?

You had absolutely no interest in getting into ther pants at all?

Im not taking a dude any-damn-where lol. Unless it was regarding business, but that's a whole different thing. And no, i had no interest in having sex with her at all. We still talk to this day. And i'll still hit her up like 'hey, meet me at ____ and lets hang out'

[GroobySteven]

Ok so if you had no sexual interest ... then why not take a "dude" out if you were only interested in her mind? Busted.

I take male and female friends out for dinner but I wouldn't use the fact I was taking a friend out, with no sexual interest to support an argument about paying for sex.

[thegreat1]

Ok so if you had no sexual interest ... then why not take a "dude" out if you were only interested in her mind? Busted.

I take male and female friends out for dinner but I wouldn't use the fact I was taking a friend out, with no sexual interest to support an argument about paying for sex.

Busted? Ummm ok. My point was this, the whole 'even if take her out for dinner and a movie, its still paying for sex' is invalid. Which, it is. Its not the same and anyone that believes that it is, is flawed in their thinking. I dont knock dudes for paying for sex, do what you do, but trying to relate it to dating is wholely inaccurate.

As far as me taking a male friend out to dinner, thats not how my friends and i operate. Simple as that. If thats what you do, more power to you. Dont knock me for not doing the same.

[GroobySteven]

Busted? Ummm ok. My point was this, the whole 'even if take her out for dinner and a movie, its still paying for sex' is invalid. Which, it is. Its not the same and anyone that believes that it is, is flawed in their thinking. I dont knock dudes for paying for sex, do what you do, but trying to relate it to dating is wholely inaccurate.

As far as me taking a male friend out to dinner, thats not how my friends and i operate. Simple as that. If thats what you do, more power to you. Dont knock me for not doing the same.

So your point is - dating is different from paying for sex, which I don't think anybody is really disputing that much - but nevertheless, nobody goes on a date (as long as they're attracted to the girl) and pays for dinner, popcorn, etc. without having sex, whether that date or the future in their mind. That's why they're dating. Your argument of taking a woman out for dinner is irrelevant, it wasn't a date, you were just taking a friend out - whom if you had no sexual interest in, could have been a male?