Should I tell my girlfriend about my attraction to TS?

[tslover65]

Thanks for all the advice guys. I've never actually been with a transsexual woman but am definitely attracted to them. I don't believe in cheating in a relationship regardless of gender so it's not a question of me wanting the freedom to have my cake and eat it too, it's more about the fact that I know how much more shocking it would be for her to one day stumble upon me watching ts porn as opposed to me being upfront and at least controlling the message. I feel like I will tell her if we get close to marriage because I'd like to be able to be 100% (or at least close lol) honest with one person in my life. Also, because I know I'd accept her for who she is regardless I want to know that she can do the same for me. But yeah, it's definitely a risk.

[thepiedpiper]

Thanks for all the advice guys. I've never actually been with a transsexual woman but am definitely attracted to them. I don't believe in cheating in a relationship regardless of gender so it's not a question of me wanting the freedom to have my cake and eat it too, it's more about the fact that I know how much more shocking it would be for her to one day stumble upon me watching ts porn as opposed to me being upfront and at least controlling the message. I feel like I will tell her if we get close to marriage because I'd like to be able to be 100% (or at least close lol) honest with one person in my life. Also, because I know I'd accept her for who she is regardless I want to know that she can do the same for me. But yeah, it's definitely a risk.

Personally I would ask the following question:

Would I tell my girlfriend that I watch porn? Your answer will probably be no. To me if I told my conservative girlfriend that I liked to watch porn of any type this is likely to make her feel inadequate or unable to satisfy you sexually or at least make her worry.

Plus most girlfriends/wifes will probably expect that their man will masturbate (probably to porn) and not think twice about it.

If you feel that you are likely to go out and sleep with a transgendered woman (or anyone else for that matter) then you need to ask if getting married is the right thing to do.

I think you should probably avoid discussing your love for porn in any form with your girlfriend to be honest. Discussing your appreciation of feminine beauty on the other hand whether that be a GG or Trans woman can't hurt surely.

[tyrone70]

RU On crack? u dumb as hell to tell her, what she don't kno won't hurt her, as long as u ain't out fuckin ts's or fem boys u good. me personally i'd take that shit to the grave if u smart. SMH u over thinkin the situation. some shit to confess is u cheated on a college exam not "he baby I really like men dressed as women" SMH? where they do that at?

[tsamberskyi]

RU On crack? u dumb as hell to tell her, what she don't kno won't hurt her, as long as u ain't out fuckin ts's or fem boys u good. me personally i'd take that shit to the grave if u smart. SMH u over thinkin the situation. some shit to confess is u cheated on a college exam not "he baby I really like men dressed as women" SMH? where they do that at?

Firstly have a but more respect than "men dressed as women.
Secondly where do they talk like that at?? Plantations?

[werwt22]

Firstly have a but more respect than "men dressed as women.
Secondly where do they talk like that at?? Plantations?

LMAO hahahahaha

[chubbychaser]

Don't tell her nothing she don't need to know.... WOULD YOU TELL HER IF YOU WAS WATCHING REGULAR PORN... WHO CARESSSSS as long as you not sleeping with trannies , it shouldn't matter.

But if you feel that you need to tell her then do it.... But me im not telling NOBODY!!!THAT'S NOT ANYBODY BUSINESS WHAT I LIKE TO WATCH!!!!But if you getting married try to stay away from it , let go of the tranny porn for good..... It's gonna be hard but its worth it.... I haven't told my girl and never plan on doing so!!!

[thepiedpiper]

Firstly have a but more respect than "men dressed as women.
Secondly where do they talk like that at?? Plantations?

"Please masser dont tell ma wife bout the men dressed as womens"

[tsamberskyi]

"Please masser dont tell ma wife bout the men dressed as womens"

Lol!! I sho is gonna be a good house trannie

[tyrone70]

Lol!! I sho is gonna be a good house trannie

shit i ain't saying thas what i think, i'm saying how SHE is gonna take it. honestly thas what it is . woman have NO RESPECT for transgendered, I kno personally my niggaz would clown the shit outta me if they knew i like fem boys and trannys

[CosmicTraveler]

shit i ain't saying thas what i think, i'm saying how SHE is gonna take it. honestly thas what it is . woman have NO RESPECT for transgendered, I kno personally my niggaz would clown the shit outta me if they knew i like fem boys and trannys

That's because they're, as you so eloquently put it, "niggaz".

Fortunately, not everyone else falls under that category.