Quote Originally Posted by TSSexyChanel View Post
I don't know if its the change of seasons or what. But if you intend to have girls be here interact and think of you as more than tricks or freaks you really are gonna have to up your game and give a lil more. There girls are here but mostly looking and lurcking cause many of them could be having these same convos with clients and getting paid for it.

Albeit we are sexual beings and this forum is attached to a porn site does that mean that that is all there is to you all. My god then the level of discussion even when talking about sex girls aren't always flattered cause you are lusting over them and want to fuck them, especially when a girl hears it 500+ times a day from men all over the world.

My best advice and I really mean this in the nicest way is to upgrade in 2009 or lower your standards cause you will get no luck with any tgirl with any amount of self respect or love for herself.

love you

Chanel
Please Chanel,

With you being the exception there has not been another girl willing, or respectful enough, to answer questions, give suggestions (such as yours above) or be honest about themselves in their interviews. Frankly the girls here portray exactly what it is we men fantasize about. And, I am willing to bet, that the only real interaction the majority of members have had with TGirls has been as "tricks" or "dates" (and we all know how that always turns out).

This is not the forum for meaningful social interaction between men whom love, adore and honestly appreciate TGirls nor the place for the girls to be lurking for them. If the girls are lurking here then it would be my educated guess that they (present company an exception as stated above) aren't looking for anyone other than the "trick" or "date".

There are forums for open and honest talk (my favorite being TGirlTalk) where the men and women can have open discussions about experiences and relationships yet even at those sites the overall interaction with TGirls is minimal because the girls do not participate. There are one or two or three regulars on the site and those are the only opinions or insights we get. Then there is the Trans forum on Craigs List where pretty much the only participants are a few people that claim to be TGirls but are such men haters you can't get an honest or respectful answer to honest and respectful questions.

I still believe that the problem lies in that many of the girls and guys are so jaded that the majority of girls see men as "dates" (or sugar daddies) and the men see the girls as "escorts" while secretly hoping they'll find one that won't charge them. And please don't think me naive. I have been in a nine year monogamous relationship with a Black TGirl that traveled and entered the Pageants across the States and I have seen the same behavior time and again. Suddenly finding myself single again (Sara was a victim of a hit and run driver -Please no sympathies as I only mention it as a reference) I truely have realized just how fortunate I was in finding a TGirl that honestly wanted a LTR, just, I'm sure, as it is difficult to find a man that's comfortable enough to be in an open and committed relationship with a TGirl.

I guess with all that said my dear Chanel, the point I'm trying to make is that this site is where many of us go to have a glimpse of our fantasies (which may or may not include a personal relationship deeper than just a sexual encounter). Those of us that want, and are ready, for this type of relationship know we need to look elsewhere. Please, give us some credit.

With respect, love and admiration Chanel, I wish you and yours, as well as all who read this, the best of times these holidays and a grand New Year.

Clinton.