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[Financier]

Drama tends to come with the territory but that doesn't mean you have to leave with it...


On another note. I've accepted that chaser role to a some degree and basically ran with it... So in this day and age if ho's don't like being called "ho's" then perhaps they should be "escorting" something other than bodily fluids...

Just saying is all.

My lifestyle requires that I keep drama and negative emotions to a minimum because I need my mind to be clear in order to think objectively. If you can continue to deal with it, then you're a better man than me.

[vidman]

interesting that you can call us hoes but if we call you a faggot for taking dick y'all wanna cry about it....y'all niggas is a trip.
I'm just saying how bout y'all show us the same amount of respect that you would want us to show you.

In my experiences, when I do show a girl respect, she still disrespects me in the utmost way. Perfect example....the situation I just dealt with from a certain girl in DC (you know who). I don't think it matters with you girls Amber. You all are so jaded by the industry until your sense of normal communication and relationships is skewed. You girls think that all men are the guys that call your phone looking to P4P. I can only speak for myself and my experiences. I can honestly say that I have NEVER disrespected a woman in my life! There is not one thread on here with me dogging or disrespecting a single woman. Even those threads where a girl is snapping on me, I never retaliated with disrespect.

[vidman]

I mean....y'all calling guys faggots is a contradiction, really. So I don't understand why y'all even call guys faggots for doing the same thing you're doing...being a male engaging in sex with another male. The dress up thing is cool and whatnot, but don't forget who you really are, especially to the point where you start condemning guys for doing what you're doing.

EXACTLY!!!!!!!! It's not like transsexuals were born biological women. As far as society sees it, they are men in dress-up. So for them to call us fags is baseless considering they are the same. Good point Finance.

[tsamberskyi]

In my experiences, when I do show a girl respect, she still disrespects me in the utmost way. Perfect example....the situation I just dealt with from a certain girl in DC (you know who). I don't think it matters with you girls Amber. You all are so jaded by the industry until your sense of normal communication and relationships is skewed. You girls think that all men are the guys that call your phone looking to P4P. I can only speak for myself and my experiences. I can honestly say that I have NEVER disrespected a woman in my life! There is not one thread on here with me dogging or disrespecting a single woman. Even those threads where a girl is snapping on me, I never retaliated with disrespect.

I actually thought you got a bit disrespectful towards Remy during y'all last spat but that's not really my place to speak on.
But yea I guess we can keep the cycle of abuse going.the guys disrespect the girls, the girls disrespect the guys and so forth.
I actually give all guys the benefit of the doubt at first.its not until the guy says or does something that I start to feel a certain way.you can ask Remy, i'm always defending men much to her annoyance lol.I've been lucky enough to meet a few nice guys so I know that they're out there.
I may be overly opinionated and abrasive at times but I don't call you guys tranny chasers or faggots.I don't chastise y'all or call you all names for what y'all like but you guys do it to girls in the industry.
P.s. interestingly enough you still want thru some drama and that girl wasn't in the industry.speaking on that subject real quick, if what you say is true than I might owe you an apology.at the very least i'm sorry to have gotten into it on the forum, that was messy of me.

[tsamberskyi]

I mean....y'all calling guys faggots is a contradiction, really. So I don't understand why y'all even call guys faggots for doing the same thing you're doing...being a male engaging in sex with another male. The dress up thing is cool and whatnot, but don't forget who you really are, especially to the point where you start condemning guys for doing what you're doing.

I don't call men fags, you totally missed the point I was trying to make *sigh*.
Whenever i'm on this forum I feel like a brick wall would comprehend me better lol.
And what do you mean what I really am?I hate when y'all try to throw that in our face like that is supposed to mean something.i'm a woman, inside and out that's my truth.
I always find it surprising that the regular people in society that I interact with have an easier time accepting me as a woman than the men who so called admire us.I get called a man by y'all way more often than normal societies does.

[Indy24]

I don't call men fags, you totally missed the point I was trying to make *sigh*.
Whenever i'm on this forum I feel like a brick wall would comprehend me better lol.
And what do you mean what I really am?I hate when y'all try to throw that in our face like that is supposed to mean something.i'm a woman, inside and out that's my truth.
I always find it surprising that the regular people in society that I interact with have an easier time accepting me as a woman than the men who so called admire us.I get called a man by y'all way more often than normal societies does.

I understand clearly but what you don't understand is that regardless of what amount of "respect" is given that's not gonna give the average escort the red carpet treatment regarding relationships. You fight the disparaging names being called but you can't deny the justifications for them stating the matter. And not knowing if his lovely escort companion has a "hair bump or a cold soar" could change his life for the remainder....

Your opinion is a result of self preservation so only you and TS women of your profession will co-sign that evasive "Pretty Woman" fetish you all tend to dream upon.

Oh and for a tranny to call a man a fag for embracing tranny cock. It can not be proven w/o his co-contributor. So you might wanna use another example to plead your case moving forward.

[Financier]

I don't call men fags, you totally missed the point I was trying to make *sigh*.
Whenever i'm on this forum I feel like a brick wall would comprehend me better lol.
And what do you mean what I really am?I hate when y'all try to throw that in our face like that is supposed to mean something.i'm a woman, inside and out that's my truth.
I always find it surprising that the regular people in society that I interact with have an easier time accepting me as a woman than the men who so called admire us.I get called a man by y'all way more often than normal societies does.

I understand the point you were making. I just wanted to say that because I see it far too much. LOL

[Financier]

By the way, what exactly are you all calling disrespect on here? When dealing with females and TS, disrespect usually means not letting them talk to you and treat you any ole kind of way. In other words, setting them straight when you have to. That's usually what they mean by disrespect. So, is that how you all gauge disrespect on here too?

[Ms Remy M]

I've noticed that a lot of transsexuals have delusions of grandeur, Cos. They like to feel larger than what they really are. They don't want you paying the same attention to another girl if you're giving her that attention regardless if you two are only friends or more than friends. The insecurities are deeply rooted, so attention makes them feel as if they have separated themselves from the rest, hence the feeling of security. Once they see you begin to show someone else the same attention it makes them feel par again. You know, like the rest.....nothing special.

Disclosure: This is only MY opinion! Nothing factual stated here. Only based on my experience with some transsexuals and the patterns are similar. One can only deduce that there may be some validity to my presumption.

I mostly agree with the sentiments here as more than a few girls popped into my mind whilst reading this bit. I would add that many guys also fall right into the same category once the tables are reversed though.

I see your point Kaz but I'm afraid you're comparing apples to oranges here. You cant really compare it like that because there are more genetic women than transsexual women. For example, 5000 biological women who escort out of 100,000 total biological women doesn't look as bad as 5000 transsexuals who escort out of 5500 total transsexuals. Do you see my point? An overwhelming majority of transsexuals work in the industry. Not the case with biological women. Another example....we all know that our prison system consists of whites and blacks, about 49% to 47% respectively. That doesn't look so bad. But when you look at the fact that blacks only make up 13% of the total US population and we are taking up almost 50% of the occupancy when white people outnumber blacks in this country 7 to 1.......now it looks bad. These are the same examples that apply to the transsexual world.

Basically I'm rehashing what I said to you in another thread. The absence of evidence is not evidence of it's absence. Your numbers are completely arbitrary and have no factual numbers to support it. You may primarily know escorts compared to non escorting ts, but that absolutely does not mean that is what the majority of the Trans population consist of just what you've been exposed to.

This isn't toward you specifically vidman, but I do find it interesting how trans admirers claim to only be willing to be involved with non sex industry trans women but practically refuse to engage with trans women outside of the sex industry (i.e porn forums, escorts, porn etc). Step out to a Ball/Pageant, Pride Marches, or the many other LGBT events that are occurring year round and Im certain many trans admirers eyes would widen at the huge population of trans women that have nothing to do with the sex industry.

[Indy24]

Step out to a Ball/Pageant, Pride Marches, or the many other LGBT events that are occurring year round and Im certain many trans admirers eyes would widen at the huge population of trans women that have nothing to do with the sex industry.

Meh....they're too damn clingy.