Just Asking...

[Ms Remy M]

Hanging around set yesterday, the model was talking about how she would need to check with her BF about coming back for a hardcore and in the next breath started showing me pictures of men she has on the side. If that wasn't enough, she showed me a video of him topping and doing oral both ways sans condom (she kept them in a password protected folder on her Android) so I can see her skills as a bottom. I informed her that she'd need to be tested before she came in for a shoot. In this day and age where you never know who a person had sex with and what they may have it's so important to protect yourself. Even with oral, where I hear the argument that HIV is least likely to be spread and I agree with that, there are still gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, HPV, etc that could potentially be spread to love ones. So, that got me to wondering about how many guys ask for condoms free sexual exploits, or just don't even think about it and take the plunge in the heat of the moment? I kind of feel that the unprotected sex should be left onscreen instead of re-enacting fantasies with people you don't truly know, (heck her BF probably thinks he knows her best, but likely wouldn't be cool with these vids). Understand, I'm not knocking anyone for whatever choice they make, as I know many girls that prefer no condoms in relationships. Just wanted to hear other thoughts on the matter as it's an important adult conversation that people should have, regardless if it's P4P, gf, wife whatever.

[anonymoussonny]

Latex is just the final layer of protection...

As you per your report, she isn't a very trustworthy/committed woman, as she has: 1)side dick, 2)secret videos and 3)a charade of a relationship. This is the kind of thing that makes relationships with anyone very serious for me. I have very few people who I call friends, while there are plenty of my associates who probably call me a friend. I value my reputation and lifestyle too much to allow this type of foolishness, as I'm sure most of the men on this site would agree. We men get bad reps for doing this type of thing then being called 'chasers', 'trade', 'thirsty' etc...

Double standards exist all because of perceptions... versus what's reality.

[Ms Remy M]

Latex is just the final layer of protection...

As you per your report, she isn't a very trustworthy/committed woman, as she has: 1)side dick, 2)secret videos and 3)a charade of a relationship. This is the kind of thing that makes relationships with anyone very serious for me. I have very few people who I call friends, while there are plenty of my associates who probably call me a friend. I value my reputation and lifestyle too much to allow this type of foolishness, as I'm sure most of the men on this site would agree. We men get bad reps for doing this type of thing then being called 'chasers', 'trade', 'thirsty' etc...

Double standards exist all because of perceptions... versus what's reality.

Well, I only call guys 'chasers' that refuse to openly date a person because they are trans. I have seen a lot of people that will say they would fuck this or that girl, but when it comes to a relationship 'nope'. That's a chaser. Just because a person likes to play the field, in and of itself doesn't make them a chaser. We are all grown consenting adults, just know what you are getting into and play safe. Everyone likes to taste the waters and see what's out there. I've been single for a year now, I'm not chasing, just enjoying life.

I reckon, in part, it's from years of hanging around escorts, and being on these forums, but I've heard so many stories where the guys ask specifically for the girl to cum on their face etc. and I'm just like "dude, you shouldn't want that, you have no idea how many other guys asking for same thing, and then you go back and kiss wife and kids" smh.

[bxboy1984]

Condoms always.
Keep a spare in my wallet just in case me or a friend need one. Only have done condomless with one ex and we were tested once every 3-4 months.

For me, isnt much difference penetration wise,and they make flavored condoms, so Id rather that than something disease wise i cant get rid of.

[DYNACORD]

You know where you have been, but you will never know where the other person has been.

This chick sounds like a real nightmare for anyone who get's involved with her. Good luck to any of the guys.

[Indy24]

Condom's don't protect you from HPV or HSV-2 if the infected area is around the genitals instead of on it. This is why it's reported that more than 50% of black women have Herpes type 2.

Because of this I've become a lot more paranoid. Relying on sextoys and other hobbies to keep me from doing something stupid. It's like when I am out there I'm chasing an imaginary high anyway....

Meet a bad chick (cis or ts) conquer it with in the process of a 2 weeks then do it all over again.

So yeah... a lot of my previous wild adventures were by the grace of God that I made it out clean. Plus I've seen evidence of infections on women that made me a believer that it's no joke. Which was enough to make me stay in the house more.

[mick foley]

question. why is it that so many industries including black-tgirls use condoms when the paperwork is in tact and the actors are safe and clean??? i kno u all wanna promote safe sex but damn its porn, everyone is documented why cant it be RAW lol? its more fantasy and im pretty sure its hotter and feels good.

[werwt22]

We say be careful whom you love but fact is we cant help it. We put our faith in unfaithful "bitches" all the time. The sad part is we perpetuate the stereotype that no one is trustworthy/faithful, and now we all believe no one is, we do what we do, and sabotage our own relationships. Got a lil sidetracked LOL.

[werwt22]

I dont use condoms in my "REAL relationships", but sad part is so many people lie thats its too hard to trust anyone is being true now, and we all suffer. So yea it "should" be wrapped up, but its hard to explain what should be done when your with someone. There is no real right or wrong in that case

[tsamberskyi]

Condom's don't protect you from HPV or HSV-2 if the infected area is around the genitals instead of on it. This is why it's reported that more than 50% of black women have Herpes type 2.

Because of this I've become a lot more paranoid. Relying on sextoys and other hobbies to keep me from doing something stupid. It's like when I am out there I'm chasing an imaginary high anyway....

Meet a bad chick (cis or ts) conquer it with in the process of a 2 weeks then do it all over again.

So yeah... a lot of my previous wild adventures were by the grace of God that I made it out clean. Plus I've seen evidence of infections on women that made me a believer that it's no joke. Which was enough to make me stay in the house more.

It's possible to have hpv and not have symptoms for years and there's no way to test for it in males.who knows you probably have it and don't even know...