Quote Originally Posted by ty- with View Post
fair enough, as i said i totally respect you & girls like you for not dealing with a dl man on a social level
but i would like to ask (not to open up a can of worms) but whats the differences for not dealing with a dl man on a social level yet its ok on a business level ?

big dick bitch comes to mind, heard she dose not prefer white men on a social level and when offered to do a scene for her site with a white man, she turned him down. that seems consistent then the latter
when I'm with a client I'm there for the money only, I don't need to like or be attracted to the person.i would be one broke chick if I only saw clients who I thought were sexy lol.I'm there to provide a service , you pay me for it and then we both go our own ways. the client has no effect on my day to day life what so ever.I have a strict separation between my personal life and work.I have regulars I've seen for years but they don't know my last name, what school I go to, where my family is from etc.
when I deal with someone on a social level ( I'm not being payed to be there) not only do I find that person interesting but worth my time and effort.I'm inviting that person to be apart of my life.i can't consider someone a friend or lover but they're ashamed to be seen with or associated with me. that's not a real friend or person for that matter