Quote Originally Posted by tsamberskyi View Post
when I'm with a client I'm there for the money only, I don't need to like or be attracted to the person.i would be one broke chick if I only saw clients who I thought were sexy lol.I'm there to provide a service , you pay me for it and then we both go our own ways. the client has no effect on my day to day life what so ever.I have a strict separation between my personal life and work.I have regulars I've seen for years but they don't know my last name, what school I go to, where my family is from etc.
when I deal with someone on a social level ( I'm not being payed to be there) not only do I find that person interesting but worth my time and effort.I'm inviting that person to be apart of my life.i can't consider someone a friend or lover but they're ashamed to be seen with or associated with me. that's not a real friend or person for that matter
An interesting point about your clients, and not really on topic but I wanted to ask a few questions about this.

I find it interesting that you can separate work and social relationships so easily (or maybe not) when it comes to your clients, especially when you are 'intimate' with them. Ok granted sex does not always bring an emotional connection but it's an interesting point none the less. I'm sure your clients often share a lot of shit with you other than being there to get their nut. I presume some guys will tell you about there likes, dislikes, dreams and so on. Have you ever let that strict separation cross over? Have you developed social relationships with any of your clients? And a more childish question.. what if one of your clients is some hot dude that pushed all your buttons, would you still look at him as a business transaction?