How would feel if your girlfriend started receiving expensive gifts from a Rapper?

[newtothisphilly]

I disagree. I have many upon many transsexual friends, lots of which I've dated. I can honestly tell you that it's hard for them. I've driven transsexual women to job interviews only for them to come out 10 mins later because the hiring manager "just filled the position an hour ago with a previous candidate". Yeah right, the real reason is because Paul Wilson walked in looking like Paulina Wilson and she got turned away. I even have transsexual friends who have gone through the courts to have their names and identities changed legally and they are discriminated against. So, although what you say is partially true, I disagree that MOST of the girls don't try. That's flat out false. Your mention of loud, ghetto and flambouyant behaviour is very incendiary and visceral at best. At the end of the day, transsexual women do not have the same chance at opportunity as you and I have. I have transsexual friends that have been killed and beaten just for being who they are. That alone tells you that discrimination and hatred does clearly exist and is very prominent among the transgendered community. I've certainly never had anyone beating me up for being a male that appears to be a male. I agree, there are a few black transsexuals holding respectable jobs. I used to date a transsexual who is now a brain surgeon. She went to medical school and specialized in Neurology. I also dated a transsexual who works as a financial advisor for one of the biggest financial firms in the world. BUT, the ratio of girls that "make it", you know, those Janet Mocks of the transgendered community, compared to those that don't is immensely disproportionate. It sounds to me that you have a strong disdain for transsexuals, especially black transsexuals based on your previous submissions. If that's the case, then you may be the one with issues that need resolving and therefore, your advice to the original poster is null and void because of your slanted personal angle. Maybe transsexuals are only a sexual fetish for you and nothing else but it's obvious that you have already formed your own negative opinion about transsexuals based on the very few that you have encountered, especially those of Black origin.

You're really just making excuses for them. The whole "woe is me I couldn't find a job" is BS. Life is hard on almost everyone in some way. Not every one turns to sucking a dick for a living because of it. You simplify your life to what's important and budget through the hard times. We are talking about some pretty empty lives if that's your only resort. Nerdy kids are also beaten for being who they are. They don't suck dicks for a living as a result.

[Magna Carta]

You're really just making excuses for them. The whole "woe is me I couldn't find a job" is BS. Life is hard on almost everyone in some way. Not every one turns to sucking a dick for a living because of it. You simplify your life to what's important and budget through the hard times. We are talking about some pretty empty lives if that's your only resort. Nerdy kids are also beaten for being who they are. They don't suck dicks for a living as a result.

Well said. Dude is brainwashed by the fact that he's attracted to them....not being at all objective. By his logic, not only should I prostitute for a living just because things aren't easy, I guess I'd be justified in robbing and stealing also.

[vidman]

Oh wow. So you're actually comparing nerdy kids to transsexuals? LOL! Dude, you need to get out of the 19th century. Nerd is in. Women find nerdy men very attractive. Not only that, but that nerd will be the one with the executive job 10 years from now making 6 figures so your comparisons are quite disproportionate. You can not compare the struggles of a transsexual person with some nerdy kid. You don't see assemblies of people on the news holding up signs saying "God hates nerds." You don't hear about nerds getting assaulted and killed on the streets. But you do see that with people of the LGBT community. I'm not even certain why you're on this forum or transsexual websites. How could you be attracted to people you have so little respect for? Is it that you're only hear to satisfy sexual fantasies? Because if that's the reason, then I understand why you speak the way you do. All I can say to you is I would hate it for you if you had a child that turned out to be LGBT.

Like I said in a previous post........I have many mtf transsexual friends that are in the sex profession. Trust me, they aren't doing it because they want to. If you have a transgendered friend who works in the industry, which I'm quite sure you dont, ask her if she actually enjoys performing random sexual acts with strangers for money. Then ask her if she has attempted other avenues besides the sex industry. Let me know what she says.

[Juan]

I do believe survival is the key why some do it. There comes a time when one needs to grow up and fend for them selves. Many are forced to do so at an early age particularly when they have no one to turn to. It is common to use your natural resources (physical attributes) in order to attain certain things in a world where everything is based on aesthetics.

[Magna Carta]

LOL. These guys are plain ole simps who are speaking with their dicks, not with their minds. I've always told women....if you want a loyal simp, get yourself a black man because black men will adamantly defend anyone they believe they have a chance of sticking their dick in, even if they have no basis for their defense....and once again I've been proven.

[Juan]

It appears you are misunderstanding a few things. Possibly, you were never broke to the point that you could not even buy food to put in your refrigerator why, you feel the way you do. A Woman can bat her eyes offer a sob story and some Man will give her Grocery money. A Man is not as fortunate.

It has nothing to do with a particular race for every race have people that are so broke that they will take desperate measures in order to survive. If someone is willing to pay you money to have sex in which you are penniless are you going to turn it down and starve based on pride?

Pride is the biggest pitfall known to man and, many transsexuals have learned to swallow their pride in order to survive. In the Latin community we are more open to transsexuals than the African American community. However, it does not mean there are not some Latin transsexuals prostituting for the sheer means of survival.

Some transsexuals prostitute discretely make their money and, never return whereas others continue 5, 10, 15 years later. It really depends on the transsexual and what they choose to do with their lives.

[vidman]

Good point Juan. Some guys let their ignorance take control of their thought process like Magna. His only use for a transsexual is to pleasure his penis. He has no interest in anything that concerns getting to know the woman as a person. I have many transsexual friends that are PURELY friends. No sexual involvement whatsoever. No desire to sexually involve myself. So his notion that I'm only being compassionate because my dick is influencing me to be is bullshit. I don't have to be a sucker-for-love guy to show compassion for a human being. If Magna were to put on a wig and a skirt one day because he felt that he was a woman, watch how fast he would suck a penis after his job lets him go. lol. So at the end of the day, as humans, we do what we have to do as we attempt to make things better. It all depends on how bad of a situation you're in and how much support you have. Society surely isn't supporting the girls and in most cases, their families don't support. So you're talking about a young person out here in the world on their own. If you've never experienced that then you would have a hard time understanding the premise. Lucky for Magna he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and never had to deal with such quagmires.

[newtothisphilly]

Oh wow. So you're actually comparing nerdy kids to transsexuals? LOL! Dude, you need to get out of the 19th century. Nerd is in. Women find nerdy men very attractive. Not only that, but that nerd will be the one with the executive job 10 years from now making 6 figures so your comparisons are quite disproportionate. You can not compare the struggles of a transsexual person with some nerdy kid. You don't see assemblies of people on the news holding up signs saying "God hates nerds." You don't hear about nerds getting assaulted and killed on the streets. But you do see that with people of the LGBT community. I'm not even certain why you're on this forum or transsexual websites. How could you be attracted to people you have so little respect for? Is it that you're only hear to satisfy sexual fantasies? Because if that's the reason, then I understand why you speak the way you do. All I can say to you is I would hate it for you if you had a child that turned out to be LGBT.

Like I said in a previous post........I have many mtf transsexual friends that are in the sex profession. Trust me, they aren't doing it because they want to. If you have a transgendered friend who works in the industry, which I'm quite sure you dont, ask her if she actually enjoys performing random sexual acts with strangers for money. Then ask her if she has attempted other avenues besides the sex industry. Let me know what she says.

What are the "struggles" of a transsexual person that you speak of? Since I can't compare them to anything you tell me about them and how they are dif from the struggles of everyone else on the planet and unique. The nerds were one single example. It wasn't a comprehensive comparison of every aspect of a transexual's life. And the Nerdy kid who goes on to make 6 figures does so because of the choices they made during their struggle. You are seing the result and not the struggle
How can I be attracted to someone I have little respect for? I respect myself. I'm attracted to women and some transsexuals. (Let's not go into a big deal about whether Tgirls are women or not either please. I'm one individual. My view that someone born male is a male doesn't harm or discriminate against anyone, it's merely my viewpoint)

I dont direspect Tgirls for being who they are. Many women I don't have respect for either because of how they carry themselves. Transexuals don't get a special pass on hard times. You make it seem like nobody else struggles. I haven't disrespected anyone. I don't have to share your viewpoint and seeing it as I do isn't disrespectful. I don't sleep with prostitutes. I 've been broke. I changed my situation. That's what you do when you're in a bad place financially.

As far as people in the LGBT community being killed. People kill people That's not exclusive to trans people. There were many more black men killed than TS. I'm sensiitive to humanity. I don't want to see anyone killed. I don't want to kill anyone. But TS aren't walking around constantly in fear of being killed and being hunted down constantly. Please let's not over dramatize. Why are you bringing up who was killed/assaulted. That's not exclusive to trans individuals. People kill people. It's a sad thing. I wish I could make it go away. BUT it has nothing to do with the huge part of a community deciding to sell their assholes and suck dicks for a living. My dignity doesnt have a price, does yours?

As I stated life has ups and downs. It's hard on most everyone. BUT not everyone sucks a dick to survive.

You're making excuses. Thinking someone doesn't have to resort to sucking a dick and turning tricks to survive is hardly "disrespecting" them.

Saying someone results to the sex industry because they have no other choice is hardly true in almost all cases. Humans have other talensts. There are ways to make money without stealing credit cards/shop lifting/sucking dicks. Seriously. saying that is not being disrespectful.

EVERYONE struggles in some way.

Those who have the desire to improve their lives will do so. Sucking dicks for a living while lining your closet with Red bottoms/Saks tags is not working to improve your life, it's a misguided soul. (I'm not speaking of trans people only. I'm speaking of the many people who have messed up priorities thinking they are so special the world should stop because they had to start from nothing).

Dude you're making excuses.

[newtothisphilly]

It appears you are misunderstanding a few things. Possibly, you were never broke to the point that you could not even buy food to put in your refrigerator why, you feel the way you do. A Woman can bat her eyes offer a sob story and some Man will give her Grocery money. A Man is not as fortunate.

It has nothing to do with a particular race for every race have people that are so broke that they will take desperate measures in order to survive. If someone is willing to pay you money to have sex in which you are penniless are you going to turn it down and starve based on pride?

Pride is the biggest pitfall known to man and, many transsexuals have learned to swallow their pride in order to survive. In the Latin community we are more open to transsexuals than the African American community. However, it does not mean there are not some Latin transsexuals prostituting for the sheer means of survival.

Some transsexuals prostitute discretely make their money and, never return whereas others continue 5, 10, 15 years later. It really depends on the transsexual and what they choose to do with their lives.

My GOD you just said pride was a bad thing and sucking a dick to survive was in essence better because it avoids the pitfall of pride.

I have been homeless. I lost everything I owned in a fire. EVERYTHING outside of the drawers on my ass. Not buying food to put in a refrigerator? LMAO WHAT refrigerator? I didn't bat my eyes and have anybody give me anything.

I washed my ass in the rest room of an office building. And here you're telling me about someone not being able to bat their eyes and have men pay their bills

Dude. Don't tell me that prostituting is the positive and pride is the negative. Let's stop using pride because there's all kinds of cliche's that go with that.

Let's use dignity. I didn't suck dicks to survive.

You're making excuses.

You guys claim to "honor" t girls but that's not what you're doing. You are attracted so you are ignoring dysfunctional lifestyle choices. It's an insult to all the transgendered people who struggle to not be associated with that and those choices.

I'm not one to salivate over a backpage hoe lol. I don't care if that person is trans or female.

In most cases whatever that money was to bring wasn't a necessity of life. Many give away their dignity to buy bullshit. That goes for tgirls and everyone else. I choose to live differntly and I don't make excuses like what' s being done here.

[newtothisphilly]

Good point Juan. Some guys let their ignorance take control of their thought process like Magna. His only use for a transsexual is to pleasure his penis. He has no interest in anything that concerns getting to know the woman as a person. I have many transsexual friends that are PURELY friends. No sexual involvement whatsoever. No desire to sexually involve myself. So his notion that I'm only being compassionate because my dick is influencing me to be is bullshit. I don't have to be a sucker-for-love guy to show compassion for a human being. If Magna were to put on a wig and a skirt one day because he felt that he was a woman, watch how fast he would suck a penis after his job lets him go. lol. So at the end of the day, as humans, we do what we have to do as we attempt to make things better. It all depends on how bad of a situation you're in and how much support you have. Society surely isn't supporting the girls and in most cases, their families don't support. So you're talking about a young person out here in the world on their own. If you've never experienced that then you would have a hard time understanding the premise. Lucky for Magna he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and never had to deal with such quagmires.

If you think the loss of a job is a direct road to sucking dicks, we probably don't need to continue. Tgirls are a small % of the population. There's PLENTY of people in the world on their own. There's a bunch of people between born with a silver spoon and sucking a dick.

You're doing a disservice to the many tgirls who make better choices.