How would feel if your girlfriend started receiving expensive gifts from a Rapper?

[newtothisphilly]

All newtothisphilly is doing here is showing who he really is. He is a stereotypical person that only browses transsexual sites for mere perversions. He has no interests whatsoever in getting to know transsexual women, the community or their struggles. To say that a person who society deems a freak has the same struggle as a person who society does not deem a freak is idiotic. Their is a visual perspective here. If I am a gay man, unless I act feminine or show myself in a feminine light, no one knows. Therefore, making my struggle a bit easier than a transsexual who society sees as a man in a wig. Only those of us who truly has an appreciation of what transsexualism is all about knows that transsexuals are not men in wigs. They actually feel as if they are women born with a defect. So to walk around in society feeling a certain way about yourself but society is treating you like you're an abomination is a far cry from a person that society feels is "normal". You're damn right it's harder for transsexuals to get ahead in society based on society's ignorance and the fact that there is a physical appearance pressure put on all transsexuals. Society is visual and this is what fuels the ignorance and hatred. Society doesn't care about what kind of person you are on the inside, it just judges you for what it sees on the outside. So newtothisphilly, I really think you are out of your realm when it comes to these issues and like I said earlier......the only thing a transsexual can do for you is suck your dick and bend you over, or bend over for you. That's all you're interested in.

NONE of this has anythig to do with our discussion How an individual feels inside and is judged by society doesnt say that after not finding a job you suck a dick. Yes society is ignorant. Yes you will experience discrimination no matter who you are. For them it is a different type. There is ignorance everywhere. TS aren't the only people in the world viewed as freaks. There are plenty of people with birth defects that you don't see on a stroll. Yes society is ignorant and they stereotype. Hell you don't know me and you've just in your ignorance assigned a bunch of stereotypical views to me. All I did was say you were making excuses because you are. So much is made of this is it a man or a woman. I see them as I see all human beings. Whether you call yourself male or female has nothing to do with the respect you get from me as one of God's children. Sexuality aside, they are human beings as we all are and that is how I treat them (and everyone else). Yes there is ignorance and hatred. But you obviously know nothing about humanity if this is how you are limited in your thinking

It seems you'll sterotype my view of them as what you want it to be and there is no room for me to disagree with you or else I'm all of the other things you say I am and they are only a sexual fetish to me and this is simply because I've disagreed with your excuses. I actually told you I don't deal with prostitutes female or trans but you ignored the fact that you know nothing about me to tell me about myself So wallow in your excuses. Give your people you call friends more excuses and there will still be transgendered individuals who work, go to school and better themselves without doing all of the things you've made excuses for.

Much of the struggle of TS is mental and folks like you are not making it better. Because many go through life feeling alone because of how society portrays them they don't know the struggles of the rest of people. They think they are their sexuality when there is a whole lot more to a person than that.

You are defending participation in an industry that makes that portrayal actual life while claiming to care, help and understand.

You are making excuses. Do you know how many people are out of work? Do you know how many people have been on 100s of interviews with no call back? It's not exclusive to trans people. Life is tough. You press on. If you are greater than your problems you get passed them. But it depends on your value system and how you value yourself