I got fucked last nite & he bust me wide open (pics inside)

[TsVanessa69]

Society is very follow the leader and they accept what they see everybody else accpeting. Being gay and walking around openly gay and with a male partner in public is ok, why, because they gays got tired of hiding, and they manned the fuck up and stepped out to live their lives, now its accpeted and tolerated. Same for mixed race couples, fat folks and whatever else. As a transwoman, and seeing gay and straight people out in the open ,and happy, I relized something. Society isnt as accepting of us because the men we deal with aren't man enough to step up and say" This is what I like and fuck the world". Its sad that gays are more of a man than those dealing with ts. We arent holding ourselves back, the men who hide the fact that they like us are the ones holding us back. I'm 37 years old and I no longer find it acceptable to be used as a dirty secret or a sex toy or an atm machine. If you can't man the fuck up, and be seen with me, your bitchass will not get some head, dick or ass from me unless you pay me! I was just in NYC, and I was walking down the street and guys approached me in the open, and that was refreshing. The guy I did choose to deal with, walked around with me and took me to eat. Its a small and simple thing, but it meant alot to me.

[drax131271]

Forgive the marketing ploy but hell I know where I am and I wanted you to open this. I do realize where I am. LOL

I have always told folks that ask me about a community where they can explore and talk safe space. I alway recommend this forum for them to join. I say we stick to what we have been doing here and not fall prey to being caught up in media bullshit.

Should we not discuss current affairs? Of course I am not saying that but I am encouraging the most judged and abused people to not turn around and do the same to others. Chingy and Bow wow are no different from any other man here in this forum. I am not someone that gets star struck. They are just men with desires like everyone of you here there is nothing special about them at all. I would also like to say I don't believe one word of what I did hear which wasnt much cause I do not do scandal. Whats between them and who they sleep with isnt my concern.

To the trannies I would like to say that we all have our own coming out processes and that includes the men. Putting folks on blast is not kosher at all. You living your life open is your CHOICE and you have no right to force that CHOICE on other folks. People do what they do when they feel comfy. If you happen to sleep with a person that decides they don't feel comfy letting the world know who they are its not your duty to make them own up to the world that fact. If you can't deal with DL men and the fact that you are someones dirty little secret don't sleep with them.

Do I condone living a DL lifestyle? NO cause to me these people are notoriously famous for being liars to everyone that loves them but I do however see how fear can keep a man lying to himself and others. It is not my job to make you accept the reality of your life I am too busy working on my own.

Let's not be pots calling kettles black.

Time for us to stop sitting in judgement of other folks and sweep around our own doors. No one here man or trannie is "the norm" I dont care how pretty and passable the girl or how masculine or much fucking the guy does to mainstream America we are all perverted freaks. Think about that.

YOUR OPINIONS ARE NOT SOMEONE ELSES REALITY

i think i love this girl she said everything i just couldn't put in words she is sooooo right keep it comming babe (no pun intended lol)

[TSSexyChanel]

Society is very follow the leader and they accept what they see everybody else accpeting. Being gay and walking around openly gay and with a male partner in public is ok, why, because they gays got tired of hiding, and they manned the fuck up and stepped out to live their lives, now its accpeted and tolerated. Same for mixed race couples, fat folks and whatever else. As a transwoman, and seeing gay and straight people out in the open ,and happy, I relized something. Society isnt as accepting of us because the men we deal with aren't man enough to step up and say" This is what I like and fuck the world". Its sad that gays are more of a man than those dealing with ts. We arent holding ourselves back, the men who hide the fact that they like us are the ones holding us back. I'm 37 years old and I no longer find it acceptable to be used as a dirty secret or a sex toy or an atm machine. If you can't man the fuck up, and be seen with me, your bitchass will not get some head, dick or ass from me unless you pay me! I was just in NYC, and I was walking down the street and guys approached me in the open, and that was refreshing. The guy I did choose to deal with, walked around with me and took me to eat. Its a small and simple thing, but it meant alot to me.

The way to change that attitude of "society" is to just live a normal life. I disagree with you too gays are not accepted they are tolerated. We are as much a part of society as everyone else and we as transpersons have to do our part. Of course no one would respect us if I wasn't transexual I probably wouldnt either. Most people never come in contact with a transexual ever in their life. All they know about transexuals is what they see on Jerry and Maury so look at the impression our sisters are giving the world about who we are as people. I know you let me ask you this how many times are people shocked that you work, aren't running around trying to fool men and taking a females man. Me and you have hung tough and you live you learn and hopefully you grow we are at points in our lives where you start to see what really matters, my self esteem at this point wont allow me to be a dirty little secret and think its cute. I feel you but the problems the trans community face are largely due to us not doing what the gays and lesbians are doing. Your group and the group that Lois has is a start to transwomen empowering ourselves but on a whole all transexuals are concerned with is looking good and slaying the next bitch.

Because I know you I am encouraging you not to be upset how other think about us but be a living example to just how wrong they are about us.

[TSSexyChanel]

I dont mean to sound bogus but can you at least show a pic that is accurately described by the title of this thread?

you live in Chicago don't make me come get you

[prince3030]

My rules for sleepng with Tgirls.

I dont give them my real name.
I only sleep with them once. Sorry but most have attitudes and they can't be trusted.

[chriss2732]

well its a lie that most of the girls or women some them call themselfs.
get with someone star or not,
only tell what they did or what he did if two people are with one other
and he or she fucks him in the ass thats non nobody bizz but theres.
in the life its so called queens allways tell what they did with who
and where and how.
it a same that you can,t do as you what in bed without
somebody saying some bullshit.
lol

[TVSURFER]

well its a lie that most of the girls or women some them call themselfs.
get with someone star or not,
only tell what they did or what he did if two people are with one other
and he or she fucks him in the ass thats non nobody bizz but theres.
in the life its so called queens allways tell what they did with who
and where and how.
it a same that you can,t do as you what in bed without
somebody saying some bullshit.
lol

Okay, I'm trying to be funny, so don't get it twisted. The Grammar Pimp told me to be cordial and that's what I'm going to do.
WHAT?

[TsVanessa69]

The way to change that attitude of "society" is to just live a normal life. I disagree with you too gays are not accepted they are tolerated. We are as much a part of society as everyone else and we as transpersons have to do our part. Of course no one would respect us if I wasn't transexual I probably wouldnt either. Most people never come in contact with a transexual ever in their life. All they know about transexuals is what they see on Jerry and Maury so look at the impression our sisters are giving the world about who we are as people. I know you let me ask you this how many times are people shocked that you work, aren't running around trying to fool men and taking a females man. Me and you have hung tough and you live you learn and hopefully you grow we are at points in our lives where you start to see what really matters, my self esteem at this point wont allow me to be a dirty little secret and think its cute. I feel you but the problems the trans community face are largely due to us not doing what the gays and lesbians are doing. Your group and the group that Lois has is a start to transwomen empowering ourselves but on a whole all transexuals are concerned with is looking good and slaying the next bitch.

Because I know you I am encouraging you not to be upset how other think about us but be a living example to just how wrong they are about us.

I guess I should have worded that better.
Its now "''ok" or as you say tolerated for 2 gfay men to walk together in public and its not that big of a deal. I was on the Red Line today on my way to see Grace, and 2 guys were sitting in front of me. One guy got up to get off and when he stood up, he bent down and kissed the other guy on the mouth, and nobody cared. My point is, gay men said fuck it, and they go about doin their thing in public, yet the men who deal with us, still keep us behind closed doors. Yes, living a normal life is refreshing on so many levels, just sometimes I want more out of men than sex.

[TsVanessa69]

My rules for sleepng with Tgirls.

I dont give them my real name.
I only sleep with them once. Sorry but most have attitudes and they can't be trusted.

Thats fucked up on so many levels. But thats why I make the money I make, so I should be thanking you for being that way.
Thats why I dont deal with men who call me a t-girl unless they have the right amount of money.
A REAL man see's me as a woman and treats me as such.
There are so few REAL man in this subculture.

[johnmagnum]

Okay, I'm trying to be funny, so don't get it twisted. The Grammar Pimp told me to be cordial and that's what I'm going to do.
WHAT?

I didnt get that one either!