Quote Originally Posted by roninva View Post
the point is, 99 % of the guys that want to be in a relationship with someone in the industry aren't going to find it to be ok after awhile, the shit looks fine when your in your 20's like most of the ladies, but what about when your hitting your 30's and 40's, most guys aren't with the same girl they were with when they were 21 and not a pro, most of the ladies here are 18-28 y.o. they most likely will not be with the same guy when they hit 30-35

We know most of these ladies will be out of this biz before they hit 30, just works that way in the adult biz, how many of the porn girls of the 80's and 90's or even 2001 2002 do you still see at the top of the game, how many of the ones you see now will be around in 2019, whole new crop many times over.

I don't know how old you are but, it would tell me a lot, and the whole distance thing shouldn't of matter, you did say her activities kept you in plane tickets, so that shouldn't of been the problem, most escorts and porn girl do tours all the time, if you ok with your woman posting around the country on Ero's Backpage, craigslist etc, good for you.

you know the distance excuse can coverup a whole lot of other problems, that you may not have known about because you were so much in love as you say.
Still wondering if your girl was doing porn, did you ever go to a shoot, I think you maybe ok with it if you didn't have to see it live and up close. sortta the don't ask don't tell type of relationship.
But to each his own,
like one guy said what she did in her past, he's cool with it's, it's the present and future they may have a issue with.
Im 20 Something now lol and when i turn 28 i plan to be out of the buisness. At the point im getting my srs and that would be sacred between and the lucky guy. I think thats a good plan escpecially if im still with the same guy and we both agreed on it.