TGirls and the sex industry

[TVSURFER]

I thought long and hard about weighing in on this topic, because it has been discussed before and this post is counterproduct of what this site is trying to achieve!
Are we going to start calling these models 'hoes' and question their trade and libido? Then ask yourself this question: Why are you here? Why are you on this site lusting after these promiscuous "hoes"? This shows how asinine this whole post is!
I've been censored for my insensetivity toward models and et. al, and this is over the top! Personally, it doesn't make sense to discuss it. It's hypocritical to discuss it!
Calling these models hoes and even implying about their sex drives, sighting data and stats, is ass backwards and still oogling the very objects you are talking about formally.
I don't think this site is all about such trivial stuff! It is boring!!!

[DirtySouth]

I thought long and hard about weighing in on this topic, because it has been discussed before and this post is counterproduct of what this site is trying to achieve!
Are we going to start calling these models 'hoes' and question their trade and libido? Then ask yourself this question: Why are you here? Why are you on this site lusting after these promiscuous "hoes"? This shows how asinine this whole post is!
I've been censored for my insensetivity toward models and et. al, and this is over the top! Personally, it doesn't make sense to discuss it. It's hypocritical to discuss it!
Calling these models hoes and even implying about their sex drives, sighting data and stats, is ass backwards and still oogling the very objects you are talking about formally.
I don't think this site is all about such trivial stuff! It is boring!!!

I see your point. It makes sense if you look at it from your perspective. I think what the discussion is really about is the huge difference in ratio to females who do or do not escort versus the ratio of t-girls. With women, we have our porn stars and escorts but there is a huge majority whom are not in that industry so if you want to settle down with a nice girl, your odds are higher. If you happen to like t-girls in a romantic situation, then odds are you're dealing with an escort every time because thats what the majority of them seem to do. Thats what I gather the discussion is about. Not complaining about our models and fantasies, but more so of discussing a valid issue when you step out of the realm of your fantasy and try to date t-girls seriously.

[MrF]

I thought long and hard about weighing in on this topic, because it has been discussed before and this post is counterproduct of what this site is trying to achieve!
Are we going to start calling these models 'hoes' and question their trade and libido? Then ask yourself this question: Why are you here? Why are you on this site lusting after these promiscuous "hoes"? This shows how asinine this whole post is!
I've been censored for my insensetivity toward models and et. al, and this is over the top! Personally, it doesn't make sense to discuss it. It's hypocritical to discuss it!
Calling these models hoes and even implying about their sex drives, sighting data and stats, is ass backwards and still oogling the very objects you are talking about formally.
I don't think this site is all about such trivial stuff! It is boring!!!

Well, since I started this "asinine", "hypocritical", "boring", and "trivial" topic ... (how was I hypocritical ? I don't claim to be better than others).

I'm here to admire the TGirls, like everyone else. And I'm interested in understanding what makes them tick. If more than 3% are involved in escorting, that's interesting (to me) and different from GG. Like I said in my posts, I don't judge anyone for that.

Since I'm anonymous and have no honor at stake, I have no problems with people criticizing my posts. Go for it. Make my day. Anyway, I'm mostly on this forum to discuss ideas and exchange info, and will always avoid personal conflicts. Peace out.

[peggygee]

Pardon my necro-posting.



But as a woman I just had to weigh in.

In terms of the percentage of transwomen that the average "admirer"
encounters, I'm going to have to say the statistics are skewed.

To illustrate, let me tell you a quick story:

Back in the day, my Brother asked my Mother and I why he couldn't meet
any women that he could "wife up." We asked him where did he tend to meet
the average woman that he was interested in dating, his response was in
bars.

If you go to a casino you will find gamblers, if you go to a school you will find
students, if you go to a gay or tranny club invariably you will find women on
the game, the same could be said of trans-related sites that are porn
oriented.

In looking for a mate, I would not be seeking one in a gay or tranny bar, pre
or post op, those would not be venues that I would frequent.

As to the other issues touched upon in the thread as to why transwomen
escort, that's a seperate topic, but as to the percentages that are being
encountered I don't feel that they are entirely accurate.

[MrF]

Oh no, this thread again ? I was hoping it was buried -- I managed to piss off so many and bored the rest.

But it is good to have the perspective of a transwoman who presumably knows the TG life far better than most of us "admirers".

I think I already stated in the thread that our "gut feeling estimates" for the percentages could be skewed because of where we're looking. (Then again I was also trying for a "scientific estimate" as well, but may have failed.)

For example, you might think one of the guys here who has met dozens (or hundreds) of TG might know about the scene. But do they really ? Certain TG will gravitate towards them, while others will steer clear, which distorts their perspectives. I'm not saying it's bad. Just saying it happens that way.

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[peggygee]

Oh no, this thread again ? I was hoping it was buried -- I managed to piss off so many and bored the rest.

But it is good to have the perspective of a transwoman who presumably knows the TG life far better than most of us "admirers".

I think I already stated in the thread that our "gut feeling estimates" for the percentages could be skewed because of where we're looking. (Then again I was also trying for a "scientific estimate" as well, but may have failed.)

For example, you might think one of the guys here who has met dozens (or hundreds) of TG might know about the scene. But do they really ? Certain TG will gravitate towards them, while others will steer clear, which distorts their perspectives. I'm not saying it's bad. Just saying it happens that way.

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Yup, almost 40 years on the job, full time.

And there are a hellva lot of women not in the scene, it truly depends
on where you look.

Admirers may think that they have the 411 on transwomen, and some do
more than others, but unless they've walked in our Payless or Ferragamo
shoes they might not have the full picture.

[thookie]

Yup, almost 40 years on the job, full time.

And there are a hellva lot of women not in the scene, it truly depends
on where you look.

Admirers may think that they have the 411 on transwomen, and some do
more than others, but unless they've walked in our Payless or Ferragamo
shoes they might not have the full picture.

So where would you suggest to look for a transwoman?

[peggygee]

So where would you suggest to look for a transwoman?

I do realize that it's kind of difficult to meet transwomen who are on the
low, who are blending, who don't really advertise their existence, basically
have assimilated into the mainstream.

But I don't think that I'm an anomaly as there are other women who feel that
since they're not gay, they wouldn't go to a gay bar, as it's mostly men
looking for other men. And though I'm mildly bi, and could be in relationship
with the right woman, I still don't see myself going to one.

Rather, I'd be in the usual places where you would meet any other chick,
work, school, church, bookstore, etc.

When I do have a dating ad it's on mainstream sites like Match, True, etc.

Though I have met people from the sites such as tsmatch, transgenderdate,
some of the nings, and a while back some of the Myspace sites.

But mostly I just meet men in the real world, and we take it from there.

[sweet&seductive]

i am a working ts and im very passable! i have my cna license and my phlebotomy license . i dnt escort! never had! it took the longest fo me to decide to post nude and do a photo shoot on black tgirl! but i used a allias name due to i dont need it biting me n the ass like it do on life time movies! but the ts that do escort make it hard for ts like me that aint n a relationship for the money or fuckin fo money to find a good man becus most man assume we r all the same! it might be a few that are doin wat the have to to make it n the world a remain on point and disease free! not sayin those that escort aint on point but they livin dangerously and to open and out there fo me! but i dnt knock they hustle! every1 gota eat! i just choose a different way to get fed and thats work! a job not a dick

[bigruss]

you guys have it all wrong, it is not the girls, its the guys. It is simple supply and demand. The reason there are so tgirl that escort is because there is a demand for it. if the guys had the nerve to open and honest about there attraction to tgirls, than there would be no need for escorts, but most men do not want there fetish known to the public and will pay for the secrecy. i have told my girlfriend, best friend, and my parents about my fetish. i even dated a tgirl publicly. most of the guys on the site would not dare do that, most guys on this site proclaim themselves as tops only to separate themselves, my guess is because they think its gay to be topped. but i have come to grips with myself a long time ago that i like women and MEN who look like women. i don't care if that makes me gay or straight or whatever. if the guys would just be true to themselves and the rest of the world than maybe this little fetish of ours would come out of the closet. oh and in nature to be inter sexed is normal. only humans operate on healthy babies sex organs to make them "normal". transgendered people have been around for hundreds of years, Indians have terms for being transgendered and are acknowledged but not accepted.