ESCORTS::i knowu guys probably talked about it but whats the deal

[werwt22]

The reason flamboyant gay guys dont get hired is just b/c of that. Theyre not well reserved in so many cases and its not an image the business wants to portray. I work with a lot of openly gay people and they get treated just like anyone else cuz they do their job and do it well. Im a guy thats truly down for the girl as long as we can live a happy life together (ME&HER).

As far as escorting, i think its becoming more of a trend like gangs. The bandwagon finally pulled through now all these other people just hoppin aboard b/c they think its the way to go just because so many others do it.

[MrF]

okay so, im finding this to be a huge trend. EVERY TRANSSEXUAL I HAVE EVER MET HAS BEEN AN ESCORT. VARIETY OF REASONS.( I dont knock them at all because i listen & understand to reasoning) What gets me are the guys who want a tsgirlfriend to look like a supermodel everyday & dont contribute to that process. Ive seen guys tell their ts girlfriend she should escort, & other guys who dont want her to escort but talks about the ease it would be. it frustrates me & confuses me. & it seems to me that guys tend to me more respectful towards these escorts, either way if they agree with it or not. somebody please explain to me.??

FWIW, I started a thread a few years back (I think you can find it by searching for threads I started) about "TGirls and the Sex Industry". There I estimated that between 3 and 14% of TGirls between 18 and 30 were escorting. I think my methods were pretty scientific and defensible, but the thread generated some discussion and disagreement. A lot of responders
thought the percentages were much higher, but I suspect that depends on where you hang out and what your perspective of the scene is.

Anyway, as personal advice I would suggest you avoid it if you think it compromises your values. And you should always be careful about who you date and demand respect from him. You certainly deserve the respect.

I don't understand your statement that "guys tend to (be) more respectful towards these escorts". Maybe if they are clients they are superficially respectful in order to make the transaction smooth and problem-free. It's essentially a brief business transaction, you know.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

FWIW, I started a thread a few years back (I think you can find it by searching for threads I started) about "TGirls and the Sex Industry". There I estimated that between 3 and 14% of TGirls between 18 and 30 were escorting. I think my methods were pretty scientific and defensible, but the thread generated some discussion and disagreement. A lot of responders
thought the percentages were much higher, but I suspect that depends on where you hang out and what your perspective of the scene is.

Anyway, as personal advice I would suggest you avoid it if you think it compromises your values. And you should always be careful about who you date and demand respect from him. You certainly deserve the respect.

I don't understand your statement that "guys tend to (be) more respectful towards these escorts". Maybe if they are clients they are superficially respectful in order to make the transaction smooth and problem-free. It's essentially a brief business transaction, you know.

Thank u so much. & i do agree about the superficial respect but they so show a certain level of respect to women who work the game,( sex industry) alot of guys wont try any funny business with a working girl. once i get a chance i will post a video of what i mean.

[DYNACORD]

Brooklyn,

It sure sounds to me that you are hanging out in a not so classy neighbor hood. I live and play in Detroit and have never heard guys talk garbage to TS girls/women in the places we go to. I've always said, if you walk in with quiet confidence and respect for the place and the staff, you never have a problem getting treated like normal people. I can prove it everyday. This goes for even NYC.

But, it's not ok for anyone to be disrespectful to another person. You avoid those kind of people and where they may play. There is a lot of losers out there. You just have to fast forward past them.

Most of the TS girls I've met are escorts. Not real thrilled about that statistic. Rather sad. But::i have noticed that the real reason is that almost all of these girls have absolutely no skill set. Just graduating from High school doesn't give you any skills. Sorry! You have to want to do something in life. Corn Rowing someone's hair doesn't cut it ether. No skill or real knowledge = NO REAL JOB. Time to escort I guess. I can name 20 here in town. Still doesn't mean you can be disrespectful.

This thread has too much going on in it. I'm drifting myself. Sorry! LOL!

[TsBrooklynMattel]

Brooklyn,

It sure sounds to me that you are hanging out in a not so classy neighbor hood. I live and play in Detroit and have never heard guys talk garbage to TS girls/women in the places we go to. I've always said, if you walk in with quiet confidence and respect for the place and the staff, you never have a problem getting treated like normal people. I can prove it everyday. This goes for even NYC.

But, it's not ok for anyone to be disrespectful to another person. You avoid those kind of people and where they may play. There is a lot of losers out there. You just have to fast forward past them.

Most of the TS girls I've met are escorts. Not real thrilled about that statistic. Rather sad. But::i have noticed that the real reason is that almost all of these girls have absolutely no skill set. Just graduating from High school doesn't give you any skills. Sorry! You have to want to do something in life. Corn Rowing someone's hair doesn't cut it ether. No skill or real knowledge = NO REAL JOB. Time to escort I guess. I can name 20 here in town. Still doesn't mean you can be disrespectful.

This thread has too much going on in it. I'm drifting myself. Sorry! LOL!

thanks luv. the posts are so much personal of me.

[DYNACORD]

I'm sorry about that. I didn't mean for it to come off like that. I actually ment that that type of behaviour from men is more common in the "HOOD" type of areas than in others. I would never try to bash you in any way.

I see these threads start to aim back at the author. It happens all the time.
It's happened to all of us.

Sorry!

[Ms Remy M]

The one excuse I hate is the whole I can't get a real job because I'm a ts excuse. This is not 1990. If a black man can find a job @ the white has your ass can find a job somewhere.

I mostly agree here, I live in a very conservative state, and I know many ts, and even ts that are not so 'passable' successfully working 9-5 jobs. Many of the girls don't bother to try for jobs in the sectors that are generally LGBT friendly. Our local Lambda chapter keeps an updated list of all LGBT friendly companies and even hosts Job Fairs, so there's hardly an excuse. Many ts don't bother to take advantage of the programs that are set up to help them. Others tend to screw themselves by having criminal records, lying on applications, failing to get name/picture change on ID.

[raheme]

I mostly agree here, I live in a very conservative state, and I know many ts, and even ts that are not so 'passable' successfully working 9-5 jobs. Many of the girls don't bother to try for jobs in the sectors that are generally LGBT friendly. Our local Lambda chapter keeps an updated list of all LGBT friendly companies and even hosts Job Fairs, so there's hardly an excuse. Many ts don't bother to take advantage of the programs that are set up to help them. Others tend to screw themselves by having criminal records, lying on applications, failing to get name/picture change on ID.

Exactly. Call a spade a spade. Its much easier to post a $5 ad on backpage and wait for some dude to come fuck you or get fucked by you for $150 an hour rather than getting your ass up in the morning, going to school, studying and not going to balls, clubs or pride parties every other weekend. I don't knock people for doing what they do, just be honest about it and stop using the same old bs arguments.
You can't complain about not being taken seriously as a professional and on the same end continue to do unprofessional shit.

[Ms Remy M]

I see so many contradictions on here its laughable. Don't claim the 'friends' that like you when your clothes are off, your ass is out, or your sucking cock. How many of these 'admirers' would still admire you if you only made post based on intellect and charm like ms peggy gee? She's been posting for years quality stuff yet dudes don't give her any love, much like remy (before the transition), but let a chick whip a dick or tit out and now suddenly she's a fucking celeb on here with 1000 friends.

To me a friend is someone who calls or text u during the day just to say hey or what's up, without the offer or lure of sex being anywhere on the table. Starting this kind of friendship with a ts is damn near impossible because most ts are so fucking guarded or jaded thinking that every man is out to get them.

its like y'all hate being judged but are the first to judge dudes like me without giving me the benefit of the doubt of actually showing u I'm a good dude (and other dudes like me). Y'all really need to take some time and look at what you typed and ask yourself, really?

Rah

*nods* I try and keep my image "off the grid" though I am there "in hiding lol" just for such a reason, I am more than the physical appearance. I don't care for being judged, puts a nasty taste in my mouth *looking to a recent poll in abject disgust*. I'm a feminist, I will say some mean things about 'men' in general, but if you approach me on a forum or one of the sites I'm on respectfully, I will always carry conversation and take you at face value. Some of the guys here know, long as you don't try to hit on me every conversation we will get along fine and dandy. I have no interest in obtaining an arbitrary number of friends, having my ego stroked, or being treated like a celeb. I've seen enough in life and death to know that there are bigger issues that matter to me.

[Ms Remy M]

do you honestly think that at 24 i dont know what constitutes a real friend?!? lol
do you think i go about my daily life acting like some type of shemale slut with everyone i come in contact with?
im a person first,woman second and transsexual last.i have a whole array of hobbies,interests and goals that have nothing to do with this world (talked about them with a few people from this board).i have a whole life filled with people who have nothing to with porn or escorting.
this is kinda what im talking about.some people can see you for who you are while other see you based on how they perceive you to be

Totally agree! Just because a girl gets into 'character' on here a porn site, doesn't mean that when out and about that's how they act. That's like expecting Eddie Murphy to act like Professor Klump 24/7