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I had a very interesting convo with a Tgirl earlier today, and of course the term Tranny Chaser was discussed. My friend stated because i know alot of girls that i would be classified as a TC. My response to her is how could I be a chaser when they come to me? That shut her up real quick...lol She then came up with the term Tranny Attracter. So the next time a girl calls you a chaser tell her no babe im a Tranny Attracter....;)
I definitely feel you on that Kali. What I don't understand is why do transsexuals label everything. Do they not realize that putting labels on things only ostracizes themselves? I never have this problem with bio-chics. I can go to Primal (straight club in Atlanta) for 5 weeks in a row and try to get at different girls every week, and I will never hear a biochic call me a pussy chaser or a woman chaser. Only transsexuals put labels on EVERYTHING. Now, what you've created is a situation where no one feels comfortable because labels have made everyone defensive and overly sensitive, as if there is something taboo about it. Similarly to the word "trade." That label is a lot of the reason why men and transsexuals have such a hard time fitting a relationship together. The Tranny chaser label is a big reason why men and transsexuals have tension when dealing with each other. Men become afraid, or should I say apprehensive about approaching a transsexual because the man doesn't know exactly what the mindset of the transsexual is. Not only that, but as transsexuals get comfortable with using and labeling men "tranny chasers," they start to believe it, which in turn, warps their mind so that there is a negative mindset, from the jump, about men before he even gets a chance to prove that he is a decent guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by kilakali
Leave the labeling alone ladies. Please realize that there are good guys out there with good intentions and there are bad guys with bad intentions. It's up to you to figure out which is which, not throw all of us in the same damn category!
I'm just sayin.....
I never did like the term "tranny chaser". As vidman says, you never do hear natural women calling you a "pussy chaser". Hell, I love MILFs, and I've spoken to quite a few (I'm in my 20s) and even have some as friends. Still, they don't call me a "granny chaser".
I do admit that I am a bit shy about approaching a shemale due to this chaser label. And not to be disrespectful, but if you're half-naked in the club with your ass all hanging out and everything, do you expect me not to talk to you? It's like some t-girls have this superiority complex where they just want guys to look at them and not talk to them. Because any time of intitial convo will get you pegged with he tranny chaser label. It's ridiculous.
I like shemales. I appreciate them, do I want to lay in bed with all of them I see? No, I'll compliment you and etc. but I'd rather stick to the escorts and potentially look into dating one in the future if that's in the cards (not an escort, lol, altho that wouldn't be too bad if she retired lmao... but I digress).
i love this topic kilakali and the tranny attracter label:)
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One bitter Tgirl's "Tranny Chaser" is another Tgirls "Knight in shining armor"
So who cares what the label is....They still call me!
That's the number one thing that gets on my nerves about transgender women.
They quick to call some one a chaser, but as soon as some one calls them an escorts, prostitutes or men in wigs, then all of a sudden it's wrong to label someone.
You can be called a chaser for any reason nowadays. Having too many transsexual friends on your facebook, myspace or youtube page.
Nice Video, TopDawg!Quote:
Originally Posted by top_dawg
Wow! Now, that was a very intelligent woman!
I absolutely agree with her and I will add to it!
First of all, at the age of twenty-five, I was chasing women all over the place and they were chasing me too. Young people (especially guys), just want to have sex, and alot of it! Now, you could have called me a woman chaser back then and you most probably would have been correct.
Once I discovered my true desire, I knew that Tgirls were gonna be at the top of the list in terms of actual and honest attraction. Now did I try to talk to as many of the attractive ones that I could? Quite naturally, yes! Did I fuck as many as I could? Quite naturally, yes! Just the same as I did with GG's. However, just like I stopped playing when I found my wife, I stopped playing when I found a TG that I though was compatible with me.
Sure! Fuckin' is fun, but makin' love to your soulmate, fulfills your life's destiny! There's nothin' like it!:)
Well, hold on, if I'm paying for an escort does it even matter?? The fact she sleeps with multiple men makes her a "guy chaser" technically doesn't it? Not being rude, just being real. Now, if I'm just in the club trying to get with you and you turn me down and I'm talking to another tranny in 4 minutes, then yes, I am indeed a tranny chaser lmao.
I don't feel it's right to label me for being attracted to you. Like why put me down? It's sort of stupid and counterproductive. The video Top_Dawg posted is interesting. I think a lot of males are trans-attracted and not chasers. We're more like fans, it's not like we follow these women in the supermarket and wait outside their house throwing rocks at their windows. No, my intentions have always been to date a TS later in my life. I have a gf right now and I'm more than happy to get the itch out my system with escorts (she's approved this), but I've always been open to that idea.
Of course, I'd have to totally relocate and get away from my judgemental social network but it's all gravy lol. Either way, I'm not a chaser. And so what if I got 20 Trannies on my friend's list? It's not all I got. If it was, then yes, I am a chaser. Name call all you want. But it isn't, I got females and males on there. What, cuz my number of guy friends outnumber TS friends, I'm gay now, too? C'mon, GTFO.
For over 10+ years I've dated TS almost exclusively in 'long term' relationships, with a couple of exceptions when I hooked up with Lesbian GG's that were also into TS. I've never been called a tranny chaser, though I've heard it thrown about to other guys. To hell with the labels though, as long as your happy, do you. I do know a lot of TS don't like to 'date' (not trick) guys that have been with their friends in a relationship, well unless he has lots of coins :p