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jess and megan why all the hate? just because i choose not to let my boys and fam know that I have a thing for TG, is just my prerogative see bobby brown. lol . i still cant understand TG, the animosity toward men is unbearable. as long as i respect you for what you are you and how you live, then you should do the same to me.

ive met my fair share of TG and the stories are all similar. these girls are rejected by their families and friends cause of their lifestyle and transition. its sad, and my hearts go out to all of them. with that said, i still can come to the reasoning that an overwhelming majority of TG have issues with the men that adore them “being on the DL” CAN I LIVE

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Originally Posted by ty-clone

jess and megan why all the hate? just because i choose not to let my boys and fam know that I have a thing for TG, is just my priority see bobby brown. lol. i still cant understand TG, the animosity toward men unbearable. as long as i respect you for what you are you and how you live, then you should do the same to me.

ive met my fair share of TG and the stories are all similar. these girls are rejected by their families and friends cause of their lifestyle and transition. its sad, and my hearts go out to all of them. with that said, i still can come to the reasoning that an overwhelming majority of TG have issues with the men that adore them “being on the DL”

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LETS NOT TALK ABOUT ISSUES U DONT KNOW... MEGAN AND I WERE BLESSSSSSSED TO HAVE LOVING SUPPORTING PARENTS. Growing up and Now!! No one was Rejected. We both had a Stable Foundation from where we came from. Hints why we are Best Friends till this day. Which Some gurls dont have. There is no hate towards men. Just an understanding That needs to be MET!!.

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Originally Posted by SEXYTSJESSDOTCOM

LETS NOT TALK ABOUT ISSUES U DONT KNOW... MEGAN AND I WERE BLESSSSSSSED TO HAVE LOVING SUPPORTING PARENTS. Growing up and Now!! No one was Rejected. We both had a Stable Foundation from where we came from. Hints why we are Best Friends till this day. Which Some gurls dont have. There is no hate towards men. Just an understanding That needs to be MET!!.

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enlighten me about that understanding comment. megan made the comment about the water cooler/playing poker men that doesnt tell his boys about the latest sexy TG he just saw or met. i don’t expect you to answer for her, hopefully she do it, when she gets a chance. but i really want to know why it’s a problem, for lets say me to adore/admire a TG and keep it to myself ?

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Originally Posted by ty-clone

ive met my fair share of TG and the stories are all similar. these girls are rejected by their families and friends cause of their lifestyle and transition. its sad, and my hearts go out to all of them. with that said, i still can come to the reasoning that an overwhelming majority of TG have issues with the men that adore them “being on the DL” CAN I LIVE

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Maybe thats true in your case, but you are generalizing girls. In my case I have found the opposite to be true which might sound surprising to some. I know a ton of tgirls and from conversations the majority do not hate men, however they are not as fond to guys that are clients of thiers,but thats business. If you meet a tgirl on a personal level (as all of my friends i have met are) you will see most of them are looking for relationships, and would love to settle down with the right guy.

As far as families rejecting them I only know a few girls that fit that scenario. Many have been accepted from their immediate family, but as far as extended family thats another issue, and even that case the numbers are few.

These kinds of topics are quite interesting, especially when ladies enter the fray. Only way for the men to learn is to listen, and visa versa.
But keep the gloves on, and punches above the belt.


Fellas, nothing wrong with loving the physical beauty of a transwoman (If you don't you on the wrong site). Just understand that some have an inner beauty as well, and approach them as such. If its not a fetish to you, don't treat it as one. You will lose friends, and maybe family, but true friends and good family members will learn that what your doing isn't a fad.

Ladies, I can see that you understand that not all men are the same, but a small point I'll add to that is we are still learning about ourselves when we first start in this lifestyle. Its gonna take us a few to get the whole struggle down. No such thing as a perfect man, just a man thats perfect for you. If your lucky enough to meet a guy who gives you 60%, 70% or even 80% of what you want, dont let that thing he doesnt or cant do blind you.


2009. Lets do thing better together.

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Originally Posted by TSMEGANFOXXDOTCOM

Jess I'm so glad you turned me on to this site. So many foolish stereotypes to shatter here... Girl, you don't need to tell these men that they're not straight. They KNOW it already. Otherwise they'd spend there breaks at the water coolers at work and poker nights with the guys discussing hot trannys rather than women, and post their likes on their myspace pages rather than on here.
This topic takes me back to childhood cartoons when a black cat was painted with a white stripe as to resemble a skunk. A cat is a cat no matter how you paint it. WOMEN don't have dicks. So, if the idea of a penis (whether it's paired with a pair of soft 36DD's or with a hairy bodybuilders chest) turns YOU on... You are NOT straight. A STRAIGHT man likes biological WOMEN ONLY. Furthermore, no STRAIGHT man in his right mind would be caught dead on a sight like this for any reason other than research into the twisted psyche of DL men. It's funny that very few of them have ANY real pictures of themselves on their avatars, while WE remain exposed for the world to see. Hmmmmm, what could explain this? Could it be shame or fear that keeps them from posting their true identities? Probably so.... How unfortunate for people to be so mature in age, yet still unable to truly be themselves. It must really be a miserable existance having to hide your true desires from the world because of fear of ridicule. Fellas, grow some damn balls.... if you can't at least be open HERE, how the hell do you think you're EVER gonna find anything other than appointment with one of us?

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WHen did you think of this between your fifth and sixth appointment on a smoke break, LMAO.....
I never show my face whether on myspace or this forum. I have very different reasons. B4 i found all this down low stuff cause whether you know it or not ts, tg, tv, cable???? lol (i got too many jokes) are still topics as you say you can't have at a dinner table. You can't even have a homosexual conversation at the office w/o mess and they have leaped all kinds of structures in a single bound (okay mayb not 1 but 3or 4 definitely). To be fair we all might as well throw the traditional labels out the window Str8, homo, etc. Cause it's apparent that we all somewhat like a penis ( i still fight with that) In fairness, I'm tolerant of it because i got my third-eye on the prize (for whatever consolation that its worth), and a tranny made me realize that but this is long enough with me telling you about that. Its just like when i was cheating on one of my girls with this other broad and the broad was trying to define what she was and i was like isn't it obvious "nothing", absolutely nothing. I couldn't honestly define it, because she was the fun. And sure i could've defined it as that but what she wanted was a public definition- like what she could call me and her in public, which was "nothing" cause i was already defined with my girl. Thus we didn't have a label, and when I got tired of that and the hard time she began to give me about anal sex it was over :mad: But the point i'm making is i was always covert with mines. Thats how i maintained a life with all the women i had and 3 of them knowing about each other w/o any real drama. Like i said i keep my shit on the low low regardless of what i do, cause you never know when you have to LOOSE a few and disappear, feel me. And to make my point all them bitches (all genders) that sit up on myspace with there faces up there talking about or somehow appearing to be gangstas all find themselves on the camera phones and laptops in the cars of DT's lookin to build careers. Thats all you here on the news "Facebook and Myspace co-operating with authorities on this case and that case", i sit there and laugh my ass off singing Mobb Deep's song Half way crooks. So no you are way off about some of us. There is business and then there is pleasure in handling my business. I don't mix'em but i have fun in doing both. My true identity truthfully you will never prolly have the capacity of knowing and that is not a shot but in all fairness I would never share with strangers (all those outside my family) my inner-self. I believe you show your identity because its related to your business otherwise i doubt you would be exposing yourself to a some odd number millions of people (mayb you would???). But you do have something i agree with you about because if i'm pimpin on this site right here to get me some bitch-ass (gottalove that term) then you are exactly right i deserve nothing less than an appointment :) Did i get that right??:cool:

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Originally Posted by thepiedpiper

this is an interesting one but maybe the wrong place to argue your points ladies. I understand where you are coming from and most of what you say makes sense but this site and forum is essentially based on men's desire to find his next fuck not a relationship hence why this is a porn forum and not a dating site. I'll go out on a whim here and say most guys here are only interesting in finding his next sexual fix and more often than not this will be him paying for it. I'm not saying its easy because i have no idea of what you have to go through but you chose to be an escort and if you don't like what comes with that then don't do it. Men will be men and in this case men will be dogs as always when it comes to porn and escorting whether it be gg, ts or straight up men.

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Not exactly, I will back the ladies (Jess and FOX) on the issues at hand. Cause i'm one of the fellas tryin to understand, otherwise i'd just be on eros and craigs (any other spots i don't know about?) where conversation is not a pre-req... the dough, do-nation, or credit card (for the elite) says it all. Yes we are dogs (sorta speak) but I'm more like Underdog:cool:

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Originally Posted by BlkMuscleTop

You do raise some very cool points indeed in that an attraction of this sort is not exactly on the straightened arrow of societal conformity for what it means to be a STRAIGHT male. When I first realized I liked transsexual women I tried to figure out what it all meant, but quickly matured from that.

I certainly won't rack my brains about what it all means, all I know is that I'm attracted to "the femme queen types" and don't give a damn who knows. Hell I even like the attitude on you girls, with all of its complexities and everything, I like confidence and a lot of you ladies do have that in your makeup.

I'm not even going to front, when it comes to sexuality I do get turned on by the penis on a pre-op tgurl, but for a different reason than some other guys. As you can tell from my user name I'm dominant sexually and enjoy topping, it turns me on to see a tgirl get hard, let's me know I'm hitting that spot real good. :)

The only hard and fast rule I stick to with a tgirl would be I am the one who does the penetrating. Everything else between us is fair game though.

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Still thinking, (self actualization)
I second this brothers thoughts. Its all a challenge we share as men some can get pass the extruding components (using them as a measuring device or sexual pleasure) others fight with it and some can't deal at all.

This is from the topic about INFAMOUS that i thought i should ask here.
What are some of the issues with her not informing guys like me that she is a TV? Whereby we would normally assume that she is a TS, Cause her looks are not that hard in some of those CraigL photos.

Im a ova boy and a ova girl i want to tranform but i dont know if i will regret it later n life...... ive been thinkin on it for 3 years so maybe thats tellin me somethg...so if not... i was thinkin should i just stop and focus more on me and stop wastin my time and money if im not goin to transform on all this shit? or should i just call it a exspensive ass hobby....im a gemini and i really goes throw it about this