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I had a very interesting convo with a Tgirl earlier today, and of course the term Tranny Chaser was discussed. My friend stated because i know alot of girls that i would be classified as a TC. My response to her is how could I be a chaser when they come to me? That shut her up real quick...lol She then came up with the term Tranny Attracter. So the next time a girl calls you a chaser tell her no babe im a Tranny Attracter....;)
I definitely feel you on that Kali. What I don't understand is why do transsexuals label everything. Do they not realize that putting labels on things only ostracizes themselves? I never have this problem with bio-chics. I can go to Primal (straight club in Atlanta) for 5 weeks in a row and try to get at different girls every week, and I will never hear a biochic call me a pussy chaser or a woman chaser. Only transsexuals put labels on EVERYTHING. Now, what you've created is a situation where no one feels comfortable because labels have made everyone defensive and overly sensitive, as if there is something taboo about it. Similarly to the word "trade." That label is a lot of the reason why men and transsexuals have such a hard time fitting a relationship together. The Tranny chaser label is a big reason why men and transsexuals have tension when dealing with each other. Men become afraid, or should I say apprehensive about approaching a transsexual because the man doesn't know exactly what the mindset of the transsexual is. Not only that, but as transsexuals get comfortable with using and labeling men "tranny chasers," they start to believe it, which in turn, warps their mind so that there is a negative mindset, from the jump, about men before he even gets a chance to prove that he is a decent guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by kilakali
Leave the labeling alone ladies. Please realize that there are good guys out there with good intentions and there are bad guys with bad intentions. It's up to you to figure out which is which, not throw all of us in the same damn category!
I'm just sayin.....
I never did like the term "tranny chaser". As vidman says, you never do hear natural women calling you a "pussy chaser". Hell, I love MILFs, and I've spoken to quite a few (I'm in my 20s) and even have some as friends. Still, they don't call me a "granny chaser".
I do admit that I am a bit shy about approaching a shemale due to this chaser label. And not to be disrespectful, but if you're half-naked in the club with your ass all hanging out and everything, do you expect me not to talk to you? It's like some t-girls have this superiority complex where they just want guys to look at them and not talk to them. Because any time of intitial convo will get you pegged with he tranny chaser label. It's ridiculous.
I like shemales. I appreciate them, do I want to lay in bed with all of them I see? No, I'll compliment you and etc. but I'd rather stick to the escorts and potentially look into dating one in the future if that's in the cards (not an escort, lol, altho that wouldn't be too bad if she retired lmao... but I digress).
i love this topic kilakali and the tranny attracter label:)
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One bitter Tgirl's "Tranny Chaser" is another Tgirls "Knight in shining armor"
So who cares what the label is....They still call me!
That's the number one thing that gets on my nerves about transgender women.
They quick to call some one a chaser, but as soon as some one calls them an escorts, prostitutes or men in wigs, then all of a sudden it's wrong to label someone.
You can be called a chaser for any reason nowadays. Having too many transsexual friends on your facebook, myspace or youtube page.
Nice Video, TopDawg!Quote:
Originally Posted by top_dawg
Wow! Now, that was a very intelligent woman!
I absolutely agree with her and I will add to it!
First of all, at the age of twenty-five, I was chasing women all over the place and they were chasing me too. Young people (especially guys), just want to have sex, and alot of it! Now, you could have called me a woman chaser back then and you most probably would have been correct.
Once I discovered my true desire, I knew that Tgirls were gonna be at the top of the list in terms of actual and honest attraction. Now did I try to talk to as many of the attractive ones that I could? Quite naturally, yes! Did I fuck as many as I could? Quite naturally, yes! Just the same as I did with GG's. However, just like I stopped playing when I found my wife, I stopped playing when I found a TG that I though was compatible with me.
Sure! Fuckin' is fun, but makin' love to your soulmate, fulfills your life's destiny! There's nothin' like it!:)
Well, hold on, if I'm paying for an escort does it even matter?? The fact she sleeps with multiple men makes her a "guy chaser" technically doesn't it? Not being rude, just being real. Now, if I'm just in the club trying to get with you and you turn me down and I'm talking to another tranny in 4 minutes, then yes, I am indeed a tranny chaser lmao.
I don't feel it's right to label me for being attracted to you. Like why put me down? It's sort of stupid and counterproductive. The video Top_Dawg posted is interesting. I think a lot of males are trans-attracted and not chasers. We're more like fans, it's not like we follow these women in the supermarket and wait outside their house throwing rocks at their windows. No, my intentions have always been to date a TS later in my life. I have a gf right now and I'm more than happy to get the itch out my system with escorts (she's approved this), but I've always been open to that idea.
Of course, I'd have to totally relocate and get away from my judgemental social network but it's all gravy lol. Either way, I'm not a chaser. And so what if I got 20 Trannies on my friend's list? It's not all I got. If it was, then yes, I am a chaser. Name call all you want. But it isn't, I got females and males on there. What, cuz my number of guy friends outnumber TS friends, I'm gay now, too? C'mon, GTFO.
For over 10+ years I've dated TS almost exclusively in 'long term' relationships, with a couple of exceptions when I hooked up with Lesbian GG's that were also into TS. I've never been called a tranny chaser, though I've heard it thrown about to other guys. To hell with the labels though, as long as your happy, do you. I do know a lot of TS don't like to 'date' (not trick) guys that have been with their friends in a relationship, well unless he has lots of coins :p
ohhh mmyyy gooooddddd, we need to put this term to rest. call a natonwide meeting!
i really want to hear what the girl is saying but the volume is too damn low!:(
Damn, man!Quote:
Originally Posted by babyjesus
I had to turn the volume down, it was so loud!:confused:
Found this lady very interesting and VERY ATTRACTIVE on the mental level.
- Does any one have more info on her?
- I would love to start a dialog and find out her reasons for staying out of site.
- Is it just to spark interest or is there more to it?
Thanks for the post Top_dawg
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Originally Posted by top_dawg
I can only imagine how negatively I might react if a bitch tried me with this label...
Fuck the label and fuck who uses it!:mad:
Alright time for me to put my 2 cents in it...
Here it is from my point of view....First off, let me say "KilaKali" is my friend and he is the man., he took some great pictures of me (we need to get together and get some more pictures taken asap)..Now the Tgirl that he is mentioning that he had this conversation with is no other than myself....Jayla...
So let me break it down from my perspective....1. Before I moved to California and began to hang out in the "social scene" I had never heard of the term "tranny chaser"...and it was a while after being in the scene before I began to use to the term...here is the thing, that term is used loosely... The term was brought to me as: a man that wants to fuck the "girls" and 4 seconds after being rejected by one, he is immediately on to the next...it also applies to when a man knowingly knows that you are extremely close friends with other t-girls see you guys walk into the club together, and he tries to drop his pick up line on you and your friends as if you dont talk and or know eachother...( in my mind this is very arrogant) to have a chance to date/sleep/fuck with all of you. And probably in that order.
Now there is absolutely nothing wrong with a man wanting to compliment a lady on her appearance and to tell her how attractive she is to him...there is nothing wrong with that at all...because that is what most of us is going for... duh...lol...But it becomes a issue when "you" the man becomes a vulture and "we" the tgirl the piece of meat.
You all have made some pretty interesting points...but GG's especially BLACK WOMEN GENETICALLY do have labels for you men...let me name a few..."BROKE", "BUSTED", "SCRUB", "BUGABOO", "TRIFLIN" , "GOOD FOR NOTHING", and the universal "PLAYER" !!!
So for those that think that Genetic women are easier on men forget it.. keep foolin yourself, because you have not been listening to any of the media that is out that by famous black women, shit white ones at that too...(all eyes to Pink)...
And you fellas got good names for them..."Chickenhead", "Gold Digger", "DSL (Dick Suckin Lips)", "Trick", etc... So as you can see is common behavior on all aspects of the spectrum... shit where do you think we got it from? "Tranny Chaser" is just something that is coined to our special lingo and verbiage...that we use to identify as certain type of male.
I agree with Vidman regarding the intentions of the person, it is totally up to us to decipher what are good intentions and bad intentions...that is the game that we play when it comes to this lifestyle unfortunately...
So with all that being said, Honest I would rather call you by "YOUR NAME" and leave the labels to UPS for packages but sometimes its even hard to get that due to the secret lives many men lead, thus giving up the fantasy name to their fantasy girl.
I will talk about "Tranny Attractive" in another post...
I say men keep complimenting us...I will call you by your name as long as you call me by mine...
Much love
Jayla
Very well said!!!!!!!!!
thanks girl!!!
Thank you for the mention, Jayla. Now that I know you're more comfortable with engaging with people on a first name basis, allow me to introduce myself.....I am Rob, AKA Vidman. I definitely agree with your post, but I believe that those coined terms that you spoke of earlier are a representation of something. For example, the term BROKE refers to a guy with no money. The term BUSTED refers to a guy who's not so attractive. BUGABOO refers to a guy who is somewhat stalking a girl. So each term represents a characteristic of that man in particular, or men in general, according to that girl. The term TRANNY-CHASER stings so much!! OUCH!! lol. I don't think there is anything wrong with a man who gets turned down by one transsexual and immediately tries to get with another. Why wait!! Men do it to GGs at the club every night. I've never heard of a term for that from a GG. Womanizer maybe? Whore maybe? Ahhh, what about Player. Yes, but none of those are as piercing as TRANNY CHASER!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by chitown diva
Jayla, you are a VERY VERY beautiful young woman from head to toe. I hope we can continue to have stimulating conversations such as this one more often. It is an honor to meet you.
Oh, and just for the record, I officially retire my status as a TRANNY CHASER. I am now OFFICIALLY a JAYLA CHASER (wink). Seriously Ms. Jayla, you're hot ma.
I'm just sayin.....
Okay, Rob (Vidman) that was a sweet post to wake up too...thank you..So now your a JAYLA CHASER ???...lets see how that goes...Im interested to see how that works...sounds fun tho...:)Quote:
Originally Posted by vidman
Now back to the post at hand...It is once again my opinion that Tranny Chaser is no worse than being called a "DOG" by a genetic woman...If you wanna talk on more of a moral degrading level.
Men who go from one girl to the next is called just that a "Dog" its like going from one hydrant to the next sniffin around until you find something to piss on (and you normally do) its the same situation with tranny chasers, they find someone to fuck and ultimately piss on them (ultimately leaving your mark and doing your damage)...and then they move on to the next hydrant... metaphorically speaking.... of course.
Thus, leaving a lot of Tgirls JADED and STAINED about men and having honest and fruitful relationships with them....
So you wanna talk about terms and things that sting...huh? Well, if you lived the life and day as a tgirl and just maybe invested your time, energy and love into a man just to find out that he wants to not only have sex with you,your friends, ya momma, and ya granny...you would be a just a bit hurt and unfulfilled... Try the sting and burn from those feelings...not pretty...But I think we all have to realize that its just an emotion, it will pass...
I say, if you are a strong minded individual and you honestly know who you are, and what your intentions are... (hopefully good ones) then you would not let any label from any side of the track offend you... Thick Skin my friend...a lot of men need to get some...Coined terms and labels has shaped our society and us as a people for years... otherwise there would not be a "BLACK TGIRL" site because no one would know what "color" or "race" that I am nor the fact that I am a "tgirl" if there were not for labels.
Racism plagues our country till this day, and its all over "LABELS"...Tranny Chaser fails in comparison of all the other million and 1 things you could be called....
and to snag a line from you Rob (Vidman)
"- Im just sayin.."
Either get some tougher skin...or find a hole/cave to crawl into...because labels are out there, and until we find better ways to communicate with and about one another....
I'd rather call you ROB, "baby", "daddy" (in the right situation), "my man", Kilakali, or better yet "my man", than tranny chaser...but it takes a lot on your part to prove that you are deserving of those labels...I bet you don't oppose to those labels...because they are more coddling, and sincere...
In the meantime regardless of what you know or may not know about me you can call me one thing and one thing only....Jayla
If you wanna get to know more about me, check out my site and my forum called EXPOSURE....@:
Icanonlybemejayla.yolasite.com
Peace and much love...
-Jayla
I dont wanna overkill this subject but a funny thought just popped into my head about what a tranny chaser would look like... [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MyT6d4FWpw&feature=related"]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MyT6d4FWpw&feature=related[/ame]
Have any of you seen Benny Hill and he has those Chase scenes...that is what a tranny chaser would be like to me..lol..Old School, British comedy...a "Chaser" before his time..lol...I love him...
Check out that link on youtube...
-Jayla
Damn Jayla you wasnt supposed to read this thread. I see I have to watch what I say. You never know who will be come a member on here.........;)
Back in the day, I didn’t have a clue as to what the stroll t-girls called me until one t-girl told me that she got with me because all the other girls said I was cool, meaning I was an “alright” guy. I took that as a badge of honor, if you know what I mean since I was out there every weekend. I always spent a fair and reasonable amount, through negotiation, mind you, but to the girls that resonated up and down the block; girls know who the guys who will and the guys who will bullshit! This labeling bullshit is irreverent; its colloquial shit girls come up with is just plain “ghetto-speak” or slang!
It makes one believe that t-girls think they are above the fray and this labeling won’t come back to bite them on their “cute” little butts! It makes one believe we are living in an alternate universe that customary rules don’t apply! Girls use the age old tactic of looking good to men and then wait to see who will take the bait
Women call men dogs, but in reality, what does that make them? T-girls try and use that same vernacular which is totally absurd; around the canine kennels they call the female dogs’ bitches! Dogs sniff fire hydrants, rocks and trees for identification purposes, dogs don’t piss on each other. I have a dog and I see this behavior every single day! On this very site, dudes call the girls bitches and hoes; one dude has a site called “Black t-girl sluts”! Do I need to say more? On another post, we had a debate on women being called fish! Well, so much for labels, eh?
To paraphrase Unknown 5, let’s put this “puppy” to rest!
I second that. I don't give a shit if I'm a chaser, a trick or whatever as long as I get what I want. Fuck the labels.Quote:
Originally Posted by TVSURFER
First Off, I loved the Benny Hill show...Thanks for the flashback!:D
Secondly, I know that I and a few others on this board will rarely EVER be called a "Tranny Chaser" simply by the way we carry ourselves when in the presence of what we like. My original comment was based on my own perspective and was meant to be intense...because I probably would snap! But normally my reputation and demeanor precede me or proclude me from that type of experience. I abhor the use of labels and very rarely use or refer to them in casual or formal register. As a black professional, I see them used by others and oft times see them applied incorrectly to the point of lunacy. I am professionally successful because I can look beneath the layers people portray, find the real person and use that as my guide for interaction with them. I do recognize how some can 'earn' a label. However, most people have so many layers they normally try to project the one they feel is going to be successful in the environment they occupy. I am not one of those people... thus my strong reaction in my prior post.
I have learned to be true to myself because ultimately its who I am accountable to.;)
I hope this helps clarify my position.:cool:
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Here is a song dedicated to all the Tranny Chasers... I hope you enjoy...had to put it up here for you guys
So am I a tranny chaser because I want to come blow that asshole out? Or am I just a horny dude who happens to like femininity in all flavors?Quote:
Originally Posted by chitown diva
Since RuPaul is a drag queen would a guy who chases DQ's be called a drag racer?......:rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by chitown diva
:D:D:D:D!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by kilakali
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You guys are hilarious...OMG...I read this and laughed my ass off....Quote:
Originally Posted by TVSURFER
Kilakali done grabbed my ass... and snatched it off...Kila I want my ass back...lol...roflmco...
rolling on the floor laughing my cock off...
I did more than that to it....:p Since you are right up the block from me I will give it back....:DQuote:
Originally Posted by chitown diva