Would u agree? Any comments are welcome..

[vidman]

If she's been or is an escort, or even hangs around with working girls, you are going to have a completely different mentality to deal with and it's not something I'd get into trying to date one of those girls.
There are however, many many girls that aren't escorting or even want to be part of the TS scene, many living normal lives or who haven't even fully came out yet but are trying to.
I've used AFF in the past and had great times with girls from there as well as yahoo personals (not as good as it used to be) and other dating places. You really have to make a bit of an effort not only to find these girls but not to come onto them like a tranny chaser. Be prepared to date them, take them to dinner, movies, walks and get to know them - if that's what your looking for!
If you just want to pop your fetish ... pay for an escort.

Exactly Seanchai! Well said. You get out of it what you put into it.

[vidman]

Sorry OP, a lil off topic.

Yeah I agree with you vidman, I can honestly say, I've never hooked up with a BTG that has attained star status that I didn't already know beforehand. Although one girl (frequently mentioned here, but doesnt pose nude) in particular use to give me the opportunity and I just turned down because at that moment when she 'wanted to get dicked down' I had more pressing matters, that was my fuck up.

Hey, I totally understand Remy. I can get with one or two popular girls that are on this site right now, but for whatever the reason, fate hasn't linked our paths yet. I don't force it if it doesn't naturally and comfortably fit. (no pun intended) LOL!!!!

[peggygee]

It's possible but not likely. Like it's been said many times on this forum and others, many girls escort either high-profile or on the low-low. They do it to be able to get the 'mones, hair did, stay beautiful, etc. But when they get into that lifestyle it often (not always) becomes a drug to them. They get addicted to the fast money and seeing every guy as an ATM/cash station. They develop untrusting attitudes about guys because they see dudes cheating on their wives and girlfriends to trick off with them. That makes it nearly impossible to have relevant, substantive, deep relationships with most of them because you won't trust them and they will only "trust" you as long as you keep lacing them with cash. So, the probability of failure on the relationship tip is high. That being said, I think there are some good ones out there. You just gotta search pretty hard and be willing to go through some shit to make it work.

I've said it before, but I feel it bears repeating - "It depends on where the
woman, is in life, and her method of getting to her goals".

Like Kool Moe Dee said "I go to work".

I realized along time ago the key to a stable transition, and didn't just live in
the now, and get caught up on fast money, not that I haven't had my
dalliances.

My transition issues have been over for decades, I'm not worried about how
I will pay for HRT, breast augmentation, Silicon, electro, FFS, or GRS, all of
those things have been accomplished and are behind me.

I also am not bitter or distrustful of men, nor feel that they only want to use
me as a fetish object, or that they can't or won't commit. I have been in long
term, stable relationships, and know first-hand that they are possible.

And no, I am not on 'the scene", you will not see me in a tranny or
gay bar, Eros, AFF, or Craigslist.

You may see me in your church, at the front of a classroom, in a bookstore,
library, at work, or somewhere getting my "shop on".

You may see me here, and on a few other sites because I'm trying to pull
other women's coats as to how they too can accomplish the goals that they
desire, and for the men to know and realize that there are many of us living
normal, mainstream lives.

[Ms Remy M]

I've said it before, but I feel it bears repeating - "It depends on where the
woman, is in life, and her method of getting to her goals".

Like Kool Moe Dee said "I go to work".

I realized along time ago the key to a stable transition, and didn't just live in
the now, and get caught up on fast money, not that I haven't had my
dalliances.

My transition issues have been over for decades, I'm not worried about how
I will pay for HRT, breast augmentation, Silicon, electro, FFS, or GRS, all of
those things have been accomplished and are behind me.

I also am not bitter or distrustful of men, nor feel that they only want to use
me as a fetish object, or that they can't or won't commit. I have been in long
term, stable relationships, and know first-hand that they are possible.

And no, I am not on 'the scene", you will not see me in a tranny or
gay bar, Eros, AFF, or Craigslist.

You may see me in your church, at the front of a classroom, in a bookstore,
library, at work, or somewhere getting my "shop on".

You may see me here, and on a few other sites because I'm trying to pull
other women's coats as to how they too can accomplish the goals that they
desire, and for the men to know and realize that there are many of us living
normal, mainstream lives.

well said!

[anonymoussonny]

I appreciate the candid, common sense that this thread offers. Thank you all for sharing...


I still got hope!

[Laidbackfella09]

Wow, awsome info peepz... Yea I wasn't lookin to really tryin to settle with a girl that escorts, couldn't deal with it to be honest.. But I do respect the hustle so that's why I just step back from that issue. It is hard to find a regular down home classy girl. And yea I have a few profiles on ts dating sites. I have meet a few cool and honest ladys. BUT!!! They tend to be all they way in Tim buk too!!!! Lmao, not literatelly but y'all know what I mean. But anyways seems I touched a pretty good issue to speak about. Thanks for all responses!!!!! One love y'all

[bigdicki]

I've said it before, but I feel it bears repeating - "It depends on where the
woman, is in life, and her method of getting to her goals".

Like Kool Moe Dee said "I go to work".

I realized along time ago the key to a stable transition, and didn't just live in
the now, and get caught up on fast money, not that I haven't had my
dalliances.

My transition issues have been over for decades, I'm not worried about how
I will pay for HRT, breast augmentation, Silicon, electro, FFS, or GRS, all of
those things have been accomplished and are behind me.

I also am not bitter or distrustful of men, nor feel that they only want to use
me as a fetish object, or that they can't or won't commit. I have been in long
term, stable relationships, and know first-hand that they are possible.

And no, I am not on 'the scene", you will not see me in a tranny or
gay bar, Eros, AFF, or Craigslist.

You may see me in your church, at the front of a classroom, in a bookstore,
library, at work, or somewhere getting my "shop on".

You may see me here, and on a few other sites because I'm trying to pull
other women's coats as to how they too can accomplish the goals that they
desire, and for the men to know and realize that there are many of us living
normal, mainstream lives.

Bravo! You are always impressive with your intelligent responses. However, real talk, you are the exception and not the rule.

[peggygee]

well said!

Bravo! You are always impressive with your intelligent responses. However, real talk, you are the exception and not the rule.

Remy, big, thank you both for your kind comments, but I don't really feel
that I am an enigma, the only woman like myself, as I do know quite a few
others, but they most def aren't on the scene, so it might be harder to
encounter them.

[Ms Remy M]

Remy, big, thank you both for your kind comments, but I don't really feel
that I am an enigma, the only woman like myself, as I do know quite a few
others, but they most def aren't on the scene, so it might be harder to
encounter them.

I totally agree.

[TsVanessa69]

To find a REAL man who will treat me like a REAL woman is rare to non-exsistant.
How would you know a girl like me is not wife material?
How many of you guys take ts out to the movies at the mall on a saturday afternoon when the mall is crowded and are secure enough in YOURSELVES to do that.
I'm Puerto Rican, how many of you guys are man enough to take me to the salsa club, with is STRAIGHT, dance with me, kiss and cuddle like all the other couples? Or maybe go with me to the fest, play silly games and go on dumb ass rides for the laughs and fun?
Or I live in Chicago, would you go with me to Navy Peer to watch the fireworks?? Or take me to taste of Chicago?
Or with you to one of YOUR familys functions.
Fuck bitching and moaning about ts escort this and ts porn star that.
YOU MEN are the reason we are the way we are. You made us this way now you want to bitch and moan??
SFU and treat us like woman and then you will get a ts like me to be wifey.
Oh yea and we would respect you for breaking the mold and being a black man who is a REAL man and can date and see us as WOMAN not ts!