Been gone two months and u dudes still dickriding...

[andwar]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

I have dated a few BTG's in the TS pageant circuit,and their real superficial, and everything is a competition,even in everyday life.always concerned about the next chick.And whats with the Imaginary haters? someones always hatin on yall for one reason or another.I was told by and older TS, that it's because your to busy devolping your bodies,and not your minds in your transition.and have low self esteem issues.K O's right! some of ya'll men need to stop letting women, and TS's treat you like ATM's only.

[peggygee]

I have dated a few women in the TS pageant circuit,and their real superficial, and everything is a competition,even in everyday life.always concerned about the next chick.And whats with the Imaginary haters? someones always hatin on yall for one reason or another.I was told by and older TS, that it's because your to busy devolping your bodies,and not your minds in your transition.and have low self esteem issues.K O's right! some of ya'll men need to stop letting women, and TS's treat you like ATM's only.

This is an excerpt from a post I made on my web-site:

When I was transitioning, I wanted the cute face, the big butt, and breasts
just like any other girl. But I realized that was only the outside of the house,
and that with the ravages of time and the elements, that the external
façade would tarnish.

Thus I worked on the interior as well. I did and continue to do therapy to
work on the demons that possessed my house. I furthered my education,
garnering marketable skills, and in the process learnt more about myself, the
world and others. I surrounded myself with people whose friendship and
advice I could trust, because they had my best interests at heart.

And last but certainty not least, I embraced a God of my understanding who
has helped me weather many a storm, and without whom I would not be a
fraction of the person that I am.

So while you’re working on the house of yours, that body beautiful, try not to
neglect your emotional, intellectual, spiritual house, for that is the house
that will stand long after your physical house has fallen into disrepair.

[DirtySouth]

these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch

Amen brutha. What you said is undisputed.

[Handandsom]

I think that's cool. I can respect that and dig the fact that you are woman enough to date a guy in spite of what your friends say. You just got major cool points from me.

Don't go soft on me homie, keep it one hunet.

[andwar]

Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch}I definelty agree.Just want their ego's stroked and their pocketbooks laced.I was dumb enough to waste my time setting up a profile on a so called BTG meet site,thinking that it was a possiblity of actually meeting someone, and see where it could lead.With an exception of a few.most that I met just wanted to be rated on the site"s rating system, and went on and on about themselves ,and all the imaginary haters they had.

[TsVanessa69]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

When men start treating us as woman and not secrets, them maybe we wouldnt see them as tricks but men.
Marrried men cheating on their wives with us for a thrill.
Men with live in girlfriends in "commited" relationships, yet u wanna have me on the side?
FUCK THAT,
I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

[MrKnockOut]

When men start treating us as woman and not secrets, them maybe we wouldnt see them as tricks but men.
Marrried men cheating on their wives with us for a thrill.
Men with live in girlfriends in "commited" relationships, yet u wanna have me on the side?
FUCK THAT,
I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

Playing devils advocate...

So everyman u have ever dated was either married or had a live in gf?
And u only sell sex bcuz men treat u as a secret?
Sounds a little absolute on both fronts


There is a lot of subjective morality floatin around n here

[DirtySouth]

I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

No offense Vanessa, we cool peoples....

.....but why be a HOE period? That thinking right there is what keeps honest men away from you and why you only attract committed men w/ secrets. Thats what escorts attract period - TS & GG.

Most TS fail to realize is that men do not wife up escorts, strippers, etc. regardless of the gender. If you were a female escort, it'd be the same issue so stop leaning on the TS issue. This is not Pretty Woman. No one is whisking away escorts/strippers away....well not permanently.

Every TS I know that doesn't escort has a stable relationship.

[MrKnockOut]

No offense Vanessa, we cool peoples....

.....but why be a HOE period? That thinking right there is what keeps honest men away from you and why you only attract committed men w/ secrets. Thats what escorts attract period - TS & GG.

Most TS fail to realize is that men do not wife up escorts, strippers, etc. regardless of the gender. If you were a female escort, it'd be the same issue so stop leaning on the TS issue. This is not Pretty Woman. No one is whisking away escorts/strippers away....well not permanently.

Every TS I know that doesn't escort has a stable relationship.

I just don't think they understand that concept...its easier to lean on the 'im a ts' crutch...

Few dudes wanna wife a known hoe, period point blank...ts, female, whateva...u wanna hoe, get ya money ma, just don't come @ me with u need to respect me as a woman bullshit...u chose the game, the game didn't choose u.
The girls want the easy money, the material, etc...but not the label

[andwar]

Both K O,and Dirty have valid points.