I often read arguments from the ladies that state how guys are thirsty and since they are thirsty, they go after $$$. This is problematic because it's sort of like the chicken and the egg debate. Which came first, thirsty guys wanting dick/ass or thirst ts wanting money/favors?

I don't really think it's cool to put the weight of the world down on a guy who happens to dig ts because he doesn't know what it's like to be a ts. I mean, sure I may not know what it's like on a day to day basis but that doesn't mean I don't or am not capable of understanind their struggles.

Just like most guys don't care about the depth of a transsexual beyond her dick size and oral capabilities, most TS don't care to know about the depth of a guy...his profession, his interests, his hobbies, his education, etc. That's just the fine line we walk in this lifestyle.

The truth is, I am sure there of plenty of real men out here who would love to openly date, get to know, and chilll with a transsexual beyond just the physical part. Just as i'm sure there are plenty of transsexual women who really do want to be wanted for WHO they are, not what they do. Either requires a level of maturity. I do find however, that the burden is usually harder for a man seeking ts attention than a ts seeking a mans attention. Why? Well, if I talk to one too many ts, or I go to a gay club to find one, or I do any of a long list of "forbiden" things than I am labeled a tranny chaser, trade, etc. Again, it is what it is. However, it it's ok for her to "date" her way to the top.

The truth is, I think it all comes down to exclusivity. More so for TS than men. Whereas most admirers don't mind a girl who's been around the block, most TS won't be caught dead with a guy who's fucked more than 2 transsexuals as a serious partner. A weird game of my morality is better than yours if you ask me. Only until we get pass this childish idealogy, we will stay chasing the same chicken and egg theories of the past...

Just thought i'd change up the content a bit and get some discussion going...